My wife died 7 months ago and I can't stop thinking about sex....It is keeping me up at night. What can I do?
2007-08-07 03:47:40 · 10 answers · asked by Greg M 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You certainly have had a significant mourning period. Now it is time for you to begin dating and trying to fill that gap in your life left by your wife's death. Start going to clubs and other places where you can come into contact with single women. You will find some who will be to your liking. Date them, and take it from there. Good luck!!
Chow!!
2007-08-07 03:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian and so I have different beliefs than the typical person. On my end of the spectrum, I say you should pray about it first and then try to occupy your mind with other things that aren't sexual. You may have to see a professional. For me, right after I get out of a relationship, my sex drive is high for a while, but after a while ( sometimes months later) the urge isn't so intense. I still get urges from time to time but I usually try to control what I think about. What does your wife have to do with your thoughts though? Are you thinking of sex with her and missing her or is it just sex in general?
2007-08-07 10:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by angel951747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural that after years of marriage that when you can`t have sex that you will think about it and it is not being unfaithful to your departed wife you still are human and have needs and she would have wanted you to go on with your life and sex is part of that life.
Apart from seeking a woman to have sex with
Masturbation is one way or an artificial vagina or love doll from a sex store(safest options)
All ways are OK and normal and are not perverted as some say, go and enjoy your self
2007-08-07 10:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry for your loss. I also lost my husband a couple of years back. Same thing happened to me, and is still happening (the thoughts I mean). Praying to God about it has helped me a lot. I know it is really difficult because from one day to another you are left alone. When this bothers me at night, I usually pray, it helps me sleep again. Hang in there. I really hope you will meet someone nice to share your urges with. God bless you.
2007-08-07 12:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Venetian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbate, or when you think about that, pray for it to stop, read, and watch tv for a few minutes
sorry about your wife
but unlike these other people ahead of me are saying, sleeping with somebody else will NEVER fill that gap. you have to get over her slowly, you loved her, and she loved you. NOTHING will make it better in only a few days.
2007-08-07 10:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take matters into your own hands and masturbate. Have you considered grief counseling to help you with the loss of your wife?
2007-08-07 14:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your wife ,but you lived up to your part of the marriage til death do us part now you must continue your life and find companionship with another when you think you are ready.
2007-08-07 10:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my condolences about your wife. you just missed her, that's why you come up with such imagination and need. you'll get over on it soon, be patient, love will not just be gone like that, Wait till your heartache heals OK? good luck and god bless.
2007-08-07 11:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by the Serious Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if sleeping with another broad will help, but I think it might. It's the best way to get over somebody. She would want you to be happy my friend.
2007-08-07 10:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the doctor.
2007-08-07 10:50:21 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋