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Question

I am burning inside with these questions.In our life we love some one deeply if we are having luck we will marry her/him or we will loose her/him.We are attached some person deeply suddenly if he/she dies we get depressed like anything.Then just observe a good girl will eventually marry a bad guy(habbits r qualities) in all aspects and vice versa.Bcoz i have observed so many situations like these around me.But im very confused about these.What are all these depend upon fate or luck.Just think a man without any capability as ours will get a good job but we cant why??.Like this in our life we will miss our loved ones,our goals,our dear ones.

Answer 1

What are you talking about?

Everyone makes choices in life, whether they are conscious of the choice they make or not. Every action has its outcomes, whether one is aware of what those outcomes will be or not. Cause and effect. Causality. Everything is a result of choice and how one reacts to choice.

Love is based on how we feel concerning another, therefore love is self based and by that definition it will always be selfish, as is any other emotion one feels. As with anything else, we choose how we feel about anything, always basing it on what matters to us at any given moment, whether we are aware of making that choice or not.

Answer 2

A man marries his mother, a woman her father, these are the ideals a person carries from their earliest formation. Love and romance are nothing but a bunch of poppycock, as are our attitudes about "good" and "bad". We can learn and overcome our dysfunctional attitudes. Personality is always a precarious balancing act, and destiny often a matter of self-fulfilling prophecies. Chance doesn't exist, we are masters of our own fates if we consciously choose so to become and are willing to undertake the scrupulous honesty that entails. Look within yourself first, if you cannot live with what you find there you cannot ever hope to live with another. What you value or fear there will be what you respond to in the one you seek. My dear ones are dear to me because we face the same life on the same terms with the strength of the love we share. They love my faults, but don't accept them any more than I do. They profit by my strengths and virtues, but don't belittle their own or substitute mine for theirs in the process. Hopefully we give and take without leaving anyone holding the bag.

Answer 3

You have 2 questions
for the first I can say the person who lost the loved ones sometimes want to take revenge on themselves or on their near ones so they select very absurd things in their life.
For the second the person who got the job or anything in the life depends on many factors a very few times luck favor them but with hard work and dedication a person needs action which happens timely, without time sense every hard work is waste.

Answer 4

Many of the problems in our lives come from within. The worries; doubts; youthful rebellion against parental authority (often the underlying reason a "good" girl seeks out the "bad" boys); even the confusion consuming the writer of this question; all of these are generated from within our own minds.
Fate, or luck, if you will, sometimes has its place at life's table, but more often than not the situations we find ourselves in are of our own doing, and thus can be undone, if one so desires.

Answer 5

"In actuality, there is no greater disaster than our own fear."

"You don't have to understand life, you just need to find your way through." Albert Einstein

"Life is not about finding yourself, it is about creating yourself."

Why? Mankind has been looking for the purpose of life forever - but confusion always was the reason for the search.
This resulted in religion and capitalism.
What you feel is fear. When you overcome it, things will fall in place like magic. Good might attract evil, but evil never attracts good.
The successful people around you are the ones you just play the game of life without thinking too much about it. And that's the key.

Answer 6

You give love definition. It is your personal experience. Good and good are a more common match. Find love and start enjoying it.

Answer 7

You are not listening to your brain your thoughts are on something else. 31 years married.

Answer 8

"No body said life was fair!"
"We all deal with the cards we are dealt!"

Answer 9

i have nothing else to see itz lyfe..unpredictable.