we have been trying to get pregnant for 2 years and the doctors have done all the tests that they will do on me until my husband goes for a SA. but he won't go because hes embarrassed. what will make him feel better about it?
2007-08-07 03:01:01 · 12 answers · asked by brown eyes 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
you should explain to him that you love him and will keep it private but you reallywant to start a family and thats not gonna happen if he keeps acting all embarassed about it. tell him that him going will make you VERY happy and this could possibly be your future at stake..
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2007-08-13 07:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by zoom. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from the tone of your question you sound desperate, If he only knew how you really felt then he would have no problem doing it. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. If I had the chance to try and take this test i would do it in a heart beat. My girlfriend and i have been trying to concieve since february. Everytime we think there is hope, we get shot down. I am dying to find out if there is something wrong with one of us whether it be her or me. I am not saying that he has no right to be embarrassed. I am just saying talk to him. Let him know that you are desperate to know. Once he does this, I am sure he will see that there is nothing to worry about. Best of luck to you and i hope EVERYTHING goes well. Keep trying and dont give up hope. keep your chin up!
2007-08-14 18:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say that when we first started ttc and we did get pregnant right away my husband asked if I wanted to call the Dr. and see if he could go get this done to make sure it wasn't him and if not then we could concentrate on me. I didn't have to though cause it is me and I was diag. w/ PCOS. I think if he really wants a child then he would be willing the first time you ask. I do know that some places will allow him to do this at home first thing in the morning and then drop it off right after. Which means you could drop it off for him. Just ask and tell him it more expensive for your test than his.... good luck and *** baby dust to you ***
2007-08-14 15:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by mom to an ANGEL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're close enough to the lab he can do it at home normally and bring it in. I think it has to be within a half an hour. Just remind him that this is for a child that you both want and it's important. He's not the first or last guy to have to go through this. My husband had to do it, his advice was to bring your own pen.
2007-08-07 03:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First have they done a post colloidal (sp?) test on you? Where you have sex that morning and you go directly to the doctors office so he can take a culture from you? Many times if that is done first then there is no need to check his sperm...because, regardless of how many viable guys he's shooting out; if your body is fighting them off and killing them; it won't make a difference.
2007-08-07 03:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi u can infact get it tested in a testing centre near ur house by which he can collect the sample at home and give it to the centre immediately for investigation that is the only choice but tell him not to feel embarrased about it just feel that u r just doing a blood test for which u r collecting the sample all the best for ur future.
2007-08-15 00:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in most places they'll let you bring in the "sample" from home....
have him read more about male infertility it's very common (40% of infertility is related to men) so nothing to be ashamed about. he can also ask an RE (fertility specialist) online anonymously (or you could too) to find out more about this test and why it's important. check the website below in the source, you can ask an RE online for free and read more on male infertility.
good luck!
2007-08-07 03:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by chiquita11 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he actually have to go? I know that the doctor wanted my husband to do it and all you have to do it collect a sample and bring it in to the lab within a specific amount of time. We didn't have to actually get the specimen there in an awkward environment.
2007-08-07 03:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand something with reference to the pH, yet i understand which you do not have a motility difficulty. the better the selection, the extra acceptable. potential extra sperm choose to swim on your egg. something under 50%, they recommend doing an insemination, so the sperm do not could swim as a techniques. i'm sorry with reference to the three miscarriages. save the religion---infant dirt to you!
2016-10-09 09:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not go then have him start taking once a day men mu-ti vitamin. It has something in it that boosts the sperm count!
2007-08-07 04:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋