I am a professional educated black man. women always tell me i'm good looking and many black , white and hispanic women seem to like me. i like asian women, they are so sexy but they won't talk to me. some even all but run away when i just say hi. thai women are an exception as they are often friendly. i just don't understand why korean and chinese women are so rude to me when i see them with white guys all the time. any info and tips to give would be appreciated.
2007-08-07 02:11:53 · 11 answers · asked by doc_of_three 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
i know asians that date blacks... where do you live? you might need to move
2007-08-07 05:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am of Asian descent and I will try to answer your question. Asian people especially from Asia do not care for American Black people because of their attitudes some of the time and lighter skin is praised in their countries. Black men are associated with everything bad (even though its not always true).
The way you approach them may also be a turn off. I dont typically date black men myself because they automatically approach me way to strong and make me feel like meat right away.
Not everyone will find you good looking by the way. Dont think that all women will think so.
Just be yourself and dont come on too strong. I'm also Black as well as Asian and I have met many Asian men. I feel that Asian people like someone who is nice, hardworking, and honest. If you speak some of their language it can really help if their English isnt too good so you can better communicate.
Oh yeah and I gotta tell you. Chasing after women just because of their race is annoying. We arent dumb and we can pick that up pretty quickly. Dont say things like " I love Asian women". Its so lame.
2007-08-07 06:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by CaliGirl 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's so sad. Oh well...
I guess it's just misconceptions and ignorance or probably it's just where they come from. Probably they don't see that many blacks or probably the news items that they get read or watch on tv in their side of the world does not really paint a good picture of blacks as a whole. I mean no offense to a single person.
I think it really depends on each individual how open his/her mind is about issues of racism despite whatever his/her upbringing is. I guess these issues are non-issues at all if people does not look at a person's color but as an individual.
2007-08-07 02:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by skye_ozc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, these may be the type of women who reserve themselves exclusively for white men so I wouldn't waste my energy on them. That is my best advice. I am Korean and had my encounters with them too. They will not acknowledge your presence unless they wish to show contempt towards you. You may not believe this but white, black and Hispanic women are actually friendlier towards me as well (but I am not in the US).
2007-08-07 16:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude over here many Asians not all but many are racist. If you go to like Japan or something. A dude at my job told me that any American could get alot going over there so, if your going for that race then just go to Japan or something that is what was said from a dude at my job. Anyways I guess you could keep trying here,maybe it would happen.
2007-08-07 03:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by Q guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white and my ex-husband is Vietnamese. Our daughter who is course bi-racial, dates a black guy, and my ex justs hates it. Asians are a very prejudice race of people, especially the men. Please don't worry about it, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.Good Luck
2007-08-07 02:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by deb 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
im chinese american and asian americans dont really care about race as much as asia's asians because asia's asians really like white skin so if they had babies with the white guys their kids would have white skin
2007-08-07 03:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by for the pursuit of happiness 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'M talking to you, aren't I? Wait, I'm typing at you~~ nevermind, then, lol! They're probably not for you if they run away. If it's the right person, they'll say hi back!
2007-08-07 08:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur in the wrong place.SF has alot of black/asian couples.I don't think its asian girls in general,maybe u just have'nt had any luck .
2007-08-10 05:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are misinformed, maybe you aren't "good looking", maybe you look like the black shrek and they are scared to tell you the truth(notice maybe).
or, the perception of black people is usually accompanied by crime, rape and murder, especially by outsiders(people who only see them outside their own country).
or, maybe you come on too intimiditing.
But i heard chinese are racist toward black folks.
2007-08-07 02:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋