Am i making the right choice in choosing a man 10yrs younger then me..?

Question

my children 13,7,2 & ahalf. im 35

Answer 1

Funny...I am currently in the exact same situation. I am 34, he is 24. I have three children, the oldest of which is closer to his age than I am. I have no doubts at all.
Men do this sort of thing all of the time without any sort of negative reprecussions or reactions. To hell with what other people think. You're an adult, not 14. It doesn't matter what the "in" crowd thinks anymore...actually, in retrospect, wouldn't you say that it never really did matter even back then?
Be happy and your children will be happy!

Answer 2

Hah. If your doubt is your intuition, listen to it. If it's your thinking then I'm not so sure. Why not go with the flow if it's the flow of both of you. If it's just him, then you can see what will happen. Run over. Road kill. I would study emotions. Either we understand them or they control us. You have to get in touch with your intuition and it will actually tell you and you can ask it and it will tell you everything as in a conversation with it. That's the secret of so called 'geniuses' of history. Also this site will help to: self_confidence.co.uk/ missing.html
Whatever we do it's a lot how we do it. Generally he will probably go for a younger woman eventually, especially if we don't use the modern psychology for the 21st century. I'm sure he could use it also. It's out there on the web. Try this for fun and profit iliveineasyworld.com

Answer 3

He is 25 so hopefully he has matured now. If you love each other at your ages this won't be a big deal. The most important thing you need to consider is how well he interacts with your children? Does he really like them. Do they like him? If he only shows interest in you then perhaps he is the wrong guy for you.

Answer 4

Your responsibility is to your children and he may interfer with this. Someone of this age really hasn't grown up and he may resent the attention you pay to your kids. If just casually dating him, why not, but if you're thinking about bring him into your family circle, you need to weigh out the pros and cons of this. It may also cause a negative reaction from your kids. They may not want to share you with a guy that's is taking up a lot of their time with you. It's hard to find someone at this age that wants to settle down, much less, with 3 kids that aren't his own. Be careful, in your decision and don't let this come between you and your children.

Answer 5

there are way more important things to consider than his age. Like does he work, is he a good provider, will he be a loving father, or will he be faithful, how well he gets along with your children. Ask yourself these Q's first.

Answer 6

no because even though he makes you happy. He probably is not ready to raise all you excess luggage. Even though he might think he is. Someone is going to come alone with one or no kids and he'll end up being with them instead especially if he wants kids of his own one day.

Answer 7

Well... if you don't mind taking care of another kid. His maturity level won't be the same. You'll be in two different stages of your life. And are you sure he wants a relationship?

Answer 8

if you think he's right for you and he's a good guy all around, with the children as well, then yeah.

age doesn't matter.

Answer 9

you are both adults,age should not matter,if he makes you happy i say it is ok,but don't be uncomfortable with him about his age,or about yours,he will pick up on that,and so won't every body else,besides it sounds like you like him,if you don't take him,i am sure some other lucky girl will

Answer 10

Love is blind, But watch the kids.