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I have often woundered the same thing. I know that I dont want to give life to a babie because I dont want it to suffer in the future. I think that many have children because they want to create something with the love that they share with each other. I think that it is a beautiful thing and wounderful but then I think about the future and it really scares me.

2007-08-07 04:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 6 · 1 0

I wanted to have a baby precisely because i wanted to be a Father. Not because i wanted her to suffer but to feel the precious gift God handed to me. I cannot forget my utmost feeling during the time on December 22, 2003 when my first baby girl was delivered. It was a complete magic. For me, it is the best gift i ever received from my wife and God. It was so precious that you don't want her to be bitten by a single mosquito. It was a perfect gift from the Lord! Sufferings are just an emotional feeling which is part of life. That's why life must continue and don't ever surrender for there is always blessings from the Above.

2007-08-06 23:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Third P 6 · 0 0

yes, everything is suffering, birth is also suffering, but babies also a part of happiness, maybe to a couples, how happy to be a mum or dad. when we born to this world, we know this world is suffering, but it does not mean there is no way to end suffering. of course, there is the way, how happy if we could end suffering, you taste what is life, it's worthwhile to be born, if some people were not born, they would be still like, nothing, they never know what is life, they never know how to end suffering, if they could, they wouldn't know what is real happiness
i hope it does make sense

cheers!

2007-08-07 01:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sυ$ιє 5 · 0 0

For the same reason that we do not commit suicide just because we feel life is nothing but suffering. In the heart of our hearts, we do realize that life is well worth it despite all the suffering.

2007-08-06 23:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by small 7 · 0 0

When a couple (man and woman) have sex, the first thing that come to mind is "enjoyment"

When the "enjoyment" is not well planned, it results into pregnancy for the female.

When females have babies that are not planned for, certainly, some sufferings MUST be experienced

I disagree with you that WE ARE ALL SUFFERING

2007-08-07 00:42:54 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful Mary 2 · 0 1

hey no one suffer after having a BABY!!!
they are just a gift of god to us
you can go back in the past by looking them growing up!
life would end without kids!!!
and when you would be old enough then who would take care of you in the end of your life?

2007-08-06 23:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

if you see it like suffering then i feel sorry for you..babys is the best gift one can get :)

2007-08-06 23:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Blackvelvet 2 · 0 1

becuase the vast majority have a little thing called hope, especially when there is much tragedy or bad times. it is universal, the esire for hope, for something better, all societies know it is a bad thing when one losses there hope in life, thatis indeed a very low point for anyone.

2007-08-06 23:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by edjdonnell 5 · 0 1

Recommended reading...a book entitled...

"The Selfish Gene"

The answer to you question is hidden within its' pages...

Read it...

At your own peril...(it reveals "The Truth...")

(Also recommended..."The Evolution of the Human Mind..." which is also a "dangerous" book that reveals "The Truth..."

2007-08-07 01:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

thats very pessimistic. We want to have babies to carry on the family name, because the whole point of life is to reproduce. and they're just so cute!!! The life you lead is the one you make for yourself!

2007-08-06 23:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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