im 13 years old, i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i had my 1st sex last month, it was really painful. is it because he refused to use condom? but before that im was having my normal period, but now im 2 weeks delayed. i am pregnant? i dont know how to tell my family, because my dad is a soldier. im afraid he might do something to my boyfriend. what should i do???
please help me!
2007-08-06 23:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You're a thirteen year old girl who's screen name is mr. curious?
Why was a 17 year old having sex with a 13 year old.
He must not be able to get girls his own age.
Refusing to use a condom...hmmm that doesn't sound like the perfect boyfriend.
Get a pregnancy test. then tell your family.
2007-08-06 23:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Eris Discordia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also curious as to why you claim to be a 13-year-old girl, yet have the prefix "Mr." in your name.
Assuming your question is real....
You're a 13-y-o child having sex?! Not only having sex, but with somebody four years your senior?! I agree that something might be right with the guy. He seemed to have taken advantage of your ignorance and naivety by not only having sex with you, but by not using a condom.
Why did you not use a condom? Why did you even do it?
If you EVER have sex again, wait until you're a clear-thinking, mature, married adult who is sure of herself, he husband and her marriage. This way, there is very little chance of a pregnancy being unwanted.
For now, though, the only way to know for sure wether or not you're pregnant is to take a test. However, at 13, your period may not have settled into a regular, natural for you pattern yet.
2007-08-07 07:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Vegan_Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter how much your in love u shouldnt do it with anybody that doesnt use a condom unless you want a disease or get pregnant. wait within the next week and if u still arent on ur period then go see a doctor. let your mom know. truth hurts but u need to stop snooping around...trust me. i was in that same situation. now me and the guy arent together anymore. i thought he gave me a diease...luckily i didnt. good luck =]
2007-08-07 06:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by ~Loving Life!!~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a test in 2 weeks, sounds like you had sex around your most fertile time so good luck with the baby!
go to your doctor, its all confidential and get them to do a test.
your boyfriend could be arrested for rape as you are underage so be careful!
not using contraception during sex is just plain stupid. i just hope you learn your lesson from this and use contraception next time.
2007-08-07 06:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to know for sure is to do a test. If your bf refused to wear a condom, you should've refused to have sex until he did!
2007-08-07 06:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by trida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl
idk what to tell you but i do know this your first mistake was having sex even after your b/f refused a condom
2007-08-07 07:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello darling,
Go to the Chemist , invent a story if you are shy and buy a test kit , it is simple and sure and, YOU KNOW
2007-08-07 06:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by J/P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gt a trusted person like your mam or sisters, talk to them away from ya dad. they will be glad of your honesty and then u need to ask them to get u a test and ask them nt to tell your dad
2007-08-07 07:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋