Poll: Have you and your partner ever gone more than a month without sex?

Question

Im on a month and a quarter at the moment.

Because she keeps rejecting me. I have tried 5 times. Don't know why.

Answer 1

with my last bf i went 6 months.....

Answer 2

Yes. Even my husband is counting days. yesterday he told me about the days and all I could do was apologise I am going through a very stressful period right now. Woman have the tendency to worry a lot until they solve it. Sometimes it's not easy. I tried to explain that to him as well but did not seem so understanding.

For me, you should be prepared in the head as well. I want us both to enjoy it. If I don't feel like doing it then I'll have to force myself to do it. We both would be upset after the session, so I rather wait for me to be prepared. I truly love him. Some men think that , maybe she's got someone else. Please do not think of that at all. Best thing you can do is try to talk to her and see if she has anything that is bothering her. If you can help her in that, maybe both of you would be relieved and enjoy sex to its fullest.

Good Luck.

Answer 3

I've gone a month like once. We were both very stupid. One day while at lunch with his friends he was like 'You can't go two weeks" Told him I could hold out longer than him and got his cousin and his girl to join in to...it was a girls against guys thing to see who could hold out the longest. It was a hellish month cause everything he did made him look sexier to me and thoughts of jumping him were always in my head. At our month mark we had both had quite enough of that crap and promised never to do that to each other again..be so stubborn just to prove a point.
You mentioned that your guy is turning down your advances. sounds like something is up there. Have you tried talking with him? Try a different approach then one that is a bit more bold that would totally shock him. Look on Cosmo for help.

Answer 4

i have once only cos a long distance thing at a point he lived in glasgow i live in london ,,but with other guys no i cant imagine going even longer than a week lollll,...i know some woman after a baby or pregnant may not feel like sex ,,but other than that im not really sure why someone would,,unless she is lost confidence in herself generally than can happen also ,,,i think u need to ask her hun,,cos i dont think its normal and thats comin from me a chic especcially to reject you to cos its gona make u start thinkin **** u dont wana think,,,, xx put ure mind at rest hun n confront her,,

Answer 5

Are you bldy kiddin?
That's a looooong time!
The longest me and my partner have gone without sex in the last 2 years is probably 3 days!And that's if we've been away from each other! lol

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Yep, because I'm 7 months pregnant now. It's been about 6 weeks as it's too painful!

Answer 8

dont mean to depress you but at the moment me and my partner think its a dry spell if we go more than a few days without it

Answer 9

Yes
It was on holiday and we couldnt meet for 4 weeks but we recovered those days :D

Answer 10

Only when he had an op. He had a circumcision and his poor thing was black and blue!! Quite swollen too - shame he didnt keep the swelling!!! Lol!!!

Answer 11

Yes, and by the way, got you beat. Over two months here.