Which is worse, the feeling of being unwanted or being betrayed?

Answer 1

a knife in the back hurts more than a cold shoulder.

Answer 2

Very difficult question. I would say betrayed because most likely there was a false sense of being cared about or that you mattered to this person at some point. When all along you were being used and you were really unwanted.

Answer 3

I think betrayed is 10 times worse.

Answer 4

Betrayed. Unwanted is just OK, I move along and find someone who is interested. But once I trust someone and they betray me, I am really crushed, doubt my judgment in having trusted them, get paranoid, etc. It's a major hurt.

Answer 5

Unwanted sucks the most, I think. Both are bad, though.

Don't worry... I won't betray you and you will never be unwanted. This I promise (-;

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Been through both and my conclusion is:

I would rather be betrayed and have my heart broken because at least they noticed me than being unwanted by walking away like you don't exist.

Answer 8

Being betrayed

Answer 9

that is hard to say as you know some people in iraq told us we were unwanted there,and when i come home to sacramento some people that were protesting the war yelling
at me and that was the only time i felt betrayed.

Answer 10

to me i guess it would be betrayal but in my situation i felt betrayed because i was unwanted, long story, but those two feelings come together in a very ugly way!

Answer 11

Not being wanted. I'd rather be betrayed, because at least I'd know that person didn't care much for me and I could move on to someone else that really wants & cares for me.