I can't believe it. My friend who I thought was a real friend to me, went and hang out with my ex girlfriend. Lied to me. Said, nothing is going to happen and than one of my friends said, there is something going to happen. So, told my friend who I known for 12-13 yrs that it upsets me, you hanging out with my ex girlfriend. And he didnt care. he still hang out with her tonight. even if we only went out for 3 days, i still don't want him hanging out with my exgirlfriend. it bothers me and he doesnt care. so, were not friends anymore. i had my reasons y i broke up with her. it was because she's a whore. i hate to say that word but its true. i wish it wasnt but it is. and i just dont want my friend to hang out with that kind of person. he would rather hang out with her, than me and that really hurts.
anyways, that's all i have to say *sigh*
wouldn't you be upset if your friend did that to you?
2007-08-06 18:56:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
thank you everyone for understanding. i know he would be upset if i started to see his ex. but i wouldnt do that to him. i want to but i just dont have the cold heart to do that.
2007-08-06 19:24:32 · update #1
Men like whore's.men will always pick a girl over a friend. This isn't a real friend.A real friend wouldn't do this to you.This happened to me, years ago. I found a new best friend and I married her, and forgot about the person I thought was a friend.
2007-08-06 19:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've actually been there a couple of years ago. It didn't last. They hanged out together for a while but it didn't continue.. For no reason. They still talk though.
When I first knew, I totally ignored him and months went by with almost no communication btw us, but then one day we met by coincidence and we started talking again... we both ignored the matter and we are ok again... but I'm not over the issue... You can't lose that kind of a friend for a girl especially when she's not worth it... give him some time, he'll realize what you did b4 and u'll be back on track... if you feel like talking, do it... He's ur friend and that's what they r made for...
2007-08-07 02:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by THEJW 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it because you felt this friend of yours ate off your plate?The nerve of that guy!!! What a dirtbag!!!
Don't worry. In a couple of years from now you will look back and say to your wife, "Now why would I do a stupid thing like that?" And lament why you broke up with your best friend of 12-13 years to a girl that really didn't mean that much to you.
...since you are married to such a beautiful wife.
2007-08-07 02:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey a best friend is more important than a gurl... you know why... a bestfriend coul stay with you forvever....but a gurl... a gurl could break your heart...
here's the point... Its just a gurl you hav known...that gurl cannot beat the friendship you had for 12 years... say sorry to your friend.... and be frends again.. A gurl could dump you..but a true frend would help you get up...so dont choose the girl over your bestfrend
2007-08-07 23:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna let a girl you dated for 3 days that you aren't dating anymore come between a friendship of 12 years??? Seriously?
There are some things in life one can not truly appreciate with out the life experience. So until you have it, heed my advice. Do not let a girl come between true friendship. It is not worth it. It is not worth the heartache and loss....
2007-08-07 02:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by USMC_Wifey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww man! That sux. But u know speaking from experience, therez no such thing as a true friend in this world. I've seen family members who stab each other in the back, so friends to me are no exception. I think the only lesson I've learnt from similar situations is that make friends but keep a distance so that if one day they decide to hurt you in any way, it won't do much damage.
2007-08-07 02:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by ruby b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be offended and hurt! U were just warninhim that she was trouble and he ignoreed U. I would be torn and I feel so bad for you. It's nice that U care about him. That would hurt. And then the EX part comesin That's difficult but he'll come around and realize that U were right. Just talk to him when you can. If he ignores you tell him how you feel about him dating her. Or get him pried away from her with something great and hile he's away from her tell him how you feel and about her and how bad she is for him if he ignores U then it's out of your hands... Good luck
2007-08-07 02:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
one of my friends went thru this too
friend one- ja- said not to go with girl-- friend two- andy-- said ok then did. she got knocked up and they got married only to have her cheat cheat and cheat some more.
they made it thru and are still friends. the same can happen for you - in time- your buddy chose her over you. it sucks but it happens. if she is as bad as you say she is then he will see it and be knocking on your door telling you that you were right all along and asking for forgiveness.
be pacient and remember that he is your friend and is making a mistake. but it is his choice in whom he hangs out with. you may not like it but it is his life. he will see her for what she is soon enough
good luck
2007-08-07 02:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by a l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1, you knew she was a whore and u went out with her anyway? shame on u!
2. you went with her 3 times does not make her urs!
3. you need to get over the fact that he is going out with her now. you dont throw away 13yrs like that.
4. find one of his ex girlfriends if u want revenge. it will open his eyes up!
5. call him and find out why he did it?
2007-08-07 02:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by agello24 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hate when that kind of stuff happens! i would never let a guy come between me and my best friend. i want her in my life forever! but i guess there is nothing you can do. maybe, in 10 years or so, you will run into each other and he will forgive you. im not much help.
2007-08-07 02:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋