okay so im in highschool & am tryin 2 decide whether 2 just F*** around & not pass up all the opportunities to get laid, or if its more fulfilling 2 have 1 girlfriend (remember, its highschool.) cmon, all you grown folk out there need ta gimme sum knowledge... whatre your thoughts? any regrets about your experience?
2007-08-06 18:41:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
i mean, i kno that teen snatch is bomb as hell, so is it a bad idea 2 pass it up for just 1 girl that ill probly breakup wit when i go 2 college anyway?
2007-08-06 18:45:22 · update #1
Just because you're in high school doesn't give you a free pass to be a man-whore. Getting laid isn't the most important thing in the world, kid. I'm not saying you have to commit yourself to one girl right now, but at least have some restraint. Almost all of my friends regret having sex either too soon or too nonchalantly. I personally don't because it was with my boyfriend of about two years at that time. To each their own I guess. The opportunities aren't going to disappear after you leave high school--they will be there the rest of your life. Pace yourself.
2007-08-06 18:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Tish 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I say play the field. Give all of the girls an equal opportunity. You are young and just starting to live. The best advice is protection. Use your own protection; don't believe anything! More futures have become forgotten because of unwanted births or teen marriage. And most of the marriages never last. Good luck to a swell guy.
2007-08-14 16:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Davey 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um... well I'll ignore for a second that you sound like a douchebag. Maybe you're not. The right way to approach dating and a sex life is: honestly. Dude, sex is almost always better when it's done within a close romantic relationship. So if you want good sex, romance a girl you like and if you're lucky, maybe you'll get her into bed. If you choose to be a sl*t and just have as much sex as possible, I'm telling ya, you're setting yourself up for pain down the road. For starters, it makes you more likely to get an STD. Secondly, if you never learn how to have close romantic relationships, you'll never get one. Maybe you can get into a teenage girls pants now but when you're 45 and have never been in a long-term relationship you're going to have a hard time getting into middle-age women's pants.
2007-08-06 18:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by k 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Actually it is the best time to f--- around while you are still is HS. Another poster mentions STDs. From a probabilistic perspective, the older you partners get the greater risk you have of contracting an STD. F--- around in college is much more risky than f--- around in HS statistically. As for building a meaningful relationship you can do that once you get to college. You aren’t planning on settling down any time soon I suppose. Have fun and do what you feel is right. Get as much as you can while you are still is HS b/c you can only legally hit the underage P----- while you are still underage…
2007-08-14 11:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by no g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think of it this way....
In future do you think the girl you fall in love with would rather you say "honey i was a slut in high school" or "baby I only had sex with the girl that I truly cared about/loved. If you have sex with everything that stands then your only gonna get the girl that every other guy in your school has had.
Just a thought
2007-08-13 18:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let your conscience be your guide. Having meaningless sex, and by meaningless I mean sex with someone you don't have feelings for or have superficial feelings for or you are just using their body for your own pleasure....is MOST unfulfilling.....and when you become a mature adult and maybe married with a family, you'll wish you hadn't given yourself in such a meaningless and selfish way when you were younger. And you can't go back. Self-control IS a good thing. It builds character.
2007-08-14 07:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by prius2005toy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, Im a senior. If i could go back, i would not wanna have a girlfriend all 3 years like I did. Have some fun. Just dont let it become the only thing on your mind, getting in girls' pants. And dont become a man-hoe. lol
2007-08-12 22:35:56 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex without love is hollow and meaningless. Don't just scratch that itch -- it may feel good for a few seconds, but you will regret it later when you truly love a woman and are not able to do more than just follow your earlier bad habits. Sex with the right person at the right time is awesome. It's better to just jerk off if you are not in that kind of relationship so you are saving yourself for something beautiful instead of just grabbing meaningless orgasms.
2007-08-07 03:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Maple 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My first suggestion is to stay in school as your spelling is sad. Secondly, you need to be careful as there are many sexually transmitted diseases out there. And third, if you are not responsible enough to be a parent, then you need to hold off on sex until you are mature enough to deal with the consequences of it
2007-08-13 11:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
idk i think that opportunities do only come along once. But then again it depends on how you handle the opportunities. Besides, the longer you wait for it, the more ravenous you will make your girlfriend, cuz believe it or not girl get just as sex-depraved as men do and when they do believe me you be staying up all night....
2007-08-14 08:22:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋