cus I know this girl who has a 18 year old guy "friend"
and I jus think sometimes that some of the guys she talks to want to be more then just friend like take it to the extreme just cus there younger
does anyone think about this ever?
Cus Im starting to feel like the only one
2007-08-06 15:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, that is an issue-especially if she is cute, the guys most likely see her as easy prey-and she is playing with fire if she choses to get involved with the walking hormones.
2007-08-06 16:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do think about these things. That's why we have laws to protect persons under the age of 18.
In theory there's nothing wrong with a 15 year old girl having a male friend who is 18 or even a bit older. But for how long will he want to remain just friends? Probably not long. Not that a 16 year old boy doesn't have the same urges as the 18 year old. But its just easier for the 15 year old girl to dismiss the 16 year old's "pleadings" than the 18 year old's demands.
2007-08-06 23:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule underage people shouldn't go out with anyone who's more than a few years older than them, because they can easily be taken advantage of. I read in a magazine today that its ok as long as its no more than 5 years difference, but I think that's not good...maybe for years because that the freshman to senior distance but any older doesn't sound good. As an Older Guy friend it sounds a little suspicious. I would say its not good unless it was like a family friend or like an older siblings friend, but as a random stranger, I would say its not a good situation.
2007-08-06 23:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most older guys that are talking to younger girls are looking for more then they should. She probably feels like shes cool for talking to these older guys, but older guys are generally better at getting a younger girl to sleep with them. I would keep an eye on your friend and make sure she doesn't do anything stupid. If shes purely in it for friendship then its not horrible, but she should keep friends around her own age.
2007-08-06 23:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by freakishleah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes until you are 18+ with a 21 or older "friend"
15 and 18 is a BIG difference you will do alot of growing up and thank your parents later... so listen to them and don't give them such a hard time, you'll be a parent just like them someday!!
2007-08-06 23:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with everybody but especially suni when she says you should tell ur friend b-cuz this could get dangerous she may not take u seriously and take it as jealousy and as u buttin in her business but tell her u care about her and if she's stubborn like me lol then just tell her fine whatever but if anything happens you're there for her. and please follow up on that
2007-08-06 23:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by rosieangel1224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's just friends, there's no harm, but if it gets to being anymore, the law could step in, as well as her parents. tell your friend how u feel tho
2007-08-06 23:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by suni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
losting future
2007-08-06 22:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally not cool
2007-08-06 22:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋