2007-08-06 15:02:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am sorry you are in this situation...tell him, no matter what he needs to know. How you tell him wont make it any better or worse...
Go to your parents, or some other trustworthy person... tell them too,,,
make the best possible decision you can, listen to your heart...
You will be in my prayers
2007-08-06 15:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Fluffy Rover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are aborting (my preference) or adopting it out. I suggest he pay half the expenses.
To be brutally frank - you haven't finished school, or an apartment, a dead-end job(?) that pays enough to support the two of you, pay the doctor bills, baby diapers, clothes, formula, baby carriers and crib, toys, food, utilities, you'll be so darn tired you can't stand it, the baby will ALWAYS be FIRST for the next 18 years and YOU will ALWAYS be LAST.
To have an unexpected baby just to have someone to love is not enough. You know this.
You have to abort or do "open adoption".
And there are plenty of good counselors around to help with the "mourning" you will need to go through during this time period.
Good luck.
2007-08-08 20:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Thats the mistake lots of people make...Well he's going to know sooner or later. You should tell him rather than him finding out and getting angry. If he really loves you, he will agree to take care of the baby and support you. If he gets scared try to talk to him and make him understand that there is nothing you can do about it now that you are pregnant and that you will have to grow up and accept the truth...
And next time, try planning your pregnancy....it'll make things alot smoother....
2007-08-06 15:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by starstudded07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not ready yet huh?So what the hell you doing having sexs in the first place?You only 15 Wow.Yall young girls never learn do yall .No.I can't judge you only God can.But I am tired of seeing young babies having babies.Should of used protection.What were Y'all thinking?Well it up to yall.Just say I'm pregnant with your baby.What else can you say?Yall is so ready.You should of not been having sex in the first place.
2007-08-06 15:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by baby 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk 2 your parents first than his
your ages are young but parents advice usually is very helpful
if no parents involve go talk to your councelor in school, health clinic
good luck 2 you both
2007-08-06 15:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by patmom817 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love him, try ur hardest to get him to understand u wanna be with him..hopefully.
if u dont love him and just like him, maybe u can create a bond between eachother then let him know..
i hope things work out!!
2007-08-06 15:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
would have to argee.. first people you should be telling are your mom and dad.. and secondly him and his parents.. cause you just stepped into a whole world of growing up quick...
the sooner you do it the quicker you can get to the rest of the issues.. cause your parents can and prolly will file rape charges..
there are tons of other issues you should of worried about before doing the deed..
best of luck cause its gonna get messy
2007-08-06 15:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by jeselynn_81 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh but you were ready to have sex? Shoulda thought about that.
Just grow up, and tell him. If he doesn't want it, and if you dont want it... then give the baby up for adoption.
2007-08-06 15:06:41 · answer #8 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
he should understand and hopefully be responsible 4 the baby
2007-08-06 15:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋