my ex bf&i were2gether for2yrs.We broke up about 6mons. ago(his doc.put him on antidepressants&he broke up w/ me by saying he was happy w/ his medication so didnt need me nemore)he was obviously just using me,but now that we have been broken up he says hes happy but idk how he could b?he has multiple sexual partners,he is involved w/ cocaine,he got a DUI,he got a ticket 4 going 140mph(may lose his license for that 2)&his parents kicked him out of his house.deep down inside idk how he can be happy,however,he seems apathetic 2wards his life situations. I left 4 college about a month ago&havent been happier.he is supposed 2 leave 4 college in a few weeks,idk if he still is,but i just wonder if anybody reading this notices this trend?is he bound 2go places in life&what are the chances of him turning his life around. He wasnt destructive like this when i was w/ him but its like he cant get ahold of himself.what caused this destruction&is it possible he has mental illness(already has OCD&ADD
2007-08-06 13:34:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
All I can tell you is hopefully he wakes up before his behaviour lands him in jail, the hospital, or an early grave.
I can not begin to fathom what makes young fellows do this but I drank for 14 years starting at age 19, not until my mid 30's did I wake up and smell teh roses... Still, looking back I can't figure myself out, just a shoulder shrug is most that comes of it, that and I'm super glad I somehow got through that mess some kind of intact.
It is a disease of sorts, but the only known cure I know of is total complete DRUG and alcohol abstinence, that's his problem, nothing else.
Don't know if you want to wait that long, but the way things stand right now it sounds like you have your act together, don't mind me if I recommend you get on with life and don't look back, maybe he comes around, but I think you're better off following your destiny without him, at least for the foreseeable future.
Sorry to hear it, you have a nice day and best of luck in all of your endeavours.
2007-08-06 13:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by netthiefx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems not to be your problem any longer. Do you enjoy agonizing over something you have absolutely no control?
I suspect not, so do yourself a favor and figure out a way to move on with your own life.
2007-08-06 13:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by talloolah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drug abuse is listed in the DSM as a mental health issue.
2007-08-06 13:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably needs a 12 step program for drug abuse.
2007-08-06 13:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hes addicted to drugs and they are causing his sudden change in attitude.you take it from here 'cause i don't want to go there.
GOD BLESS YOU!
2007-08-06 13:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by morningstar6707 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋