Man i really do need help here.
2007-08-06 13:15:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I wish some buddy of mine had told me long before I found out and gave me proof
2007-08-06 13:19:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would either call him or go to him in person and say with the proof: "Dude, I don't want to hurt you in anyway or want to be the bad guy here. I just want to help you out. This might shock you and you might hate me but your wife is cheating on you with some other guy."
2007-08-06 13:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by kryptons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!!! Someone once told his brother that his wife was cheating on him, and the brother drove his car off a cliff. AND, as it turned out, she was NOT -- she was going for piano lessons to surprise her husband!
If you are absolutely sure, and feel he needs to know, guide him toward finding out without telling him yourself.
2007-08-06 13:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Marley K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you certain she is cheating on him? You don't want to break up a good marriage on suspicion. COnfirm your fears and, if the worst happens to be true, gently take him aside and suggest that he talk to his wife about their marriage, is she happy whats going on in her life etc. Good luck and may your suspicions be nothing but that.-Scarlet
2007-08-06 13:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by A Bit Bohemian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and positioned the damaging guy out of his misery. i do no longer understand why some do no longer tell. maximum already be responsive to something is going on they only can no longer coach it. They go through in silence. while they are instructed the fact they alter into empowered to do what they desire with that counsel. It frees them.
2016-12-11 12:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a friend and you know this to be true -you have no choice -be ready for anything , even loosing his friendship ,but don't betray him by not telling him what you know . Even if its only for the safety of his health.
2007-08-06 13:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Bemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get involved, I would suggest to have a chat with the wife instead of your friend, tell her you know and encourage her to step-forward.
2007-08-06 13:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by SolarSoul 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my experience its best to stay out of it, because you will be "the bad guy' in the long run
2007-08-06 13:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him with a note
2007-08-06 13:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Catcanscratch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just jump out and say it. and if its you shes cheating with i'd call him instead of being in the same room lol.
2007-08-06 13:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by leeb130 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋