A guy friend moved to another state a year ago and since then have kept in contact by chat..once a mth or so even though we didn't know each other well before he left. I have to visit his city for work in a few weeks and he said he'd love to meet up. Problem is I'm now thinkning about him a lot..he wrote that he's going to fall in love with me & also said hurry up and come! We admitted we like each other. Thing is I don't know him that well & I'm just worried as we don't chat very often. Now its a few wks since we've chatted..usually he contacts me. It's making me insecure & worried but I do know he's really busy now. So a week ago, I mailed him to tell him the date I'll be there and am waiting a reply. Why hasn't he got back to me? Really, he initiated all the feelings..& I reacted to this as I started having feelings too. Now why the silence when he always sounded so excited about the whole thing?
2007-08-06 13:05:28 · 2 answers · asked by sonia 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe it was easier chatting on line, and the actual thought of your coming there physically, has got him frightened as well.
He may be afraid that he won't measure up to what you were expecting,.. or you, may not be what he was really looking for, other than a friend.
I would send one more e-mail, if he does not respond, he has said it all......by saying nothing at all....I am sorry if you have hurt feelings....but sometimes it is for the best..or maybe he has met someone new in the mean time, and it could be very awkward. ..how ever it turns out, keep your chin up and head held high, you are a valuable person, and your day, and man will come along.....peace and good luck...and thank you for asking my opinion
2007-08-07 04:43:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you have feelings for someone you don't know that well? It sounds more like you are feeling disappointment that your plans aren't developing the way you'd like.
2007-08-06 21:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋