It was an accident?

Question

I am 15 years old and am now pregnant. It just happened and now i don't know what to do. My parents think that I should leave so I don't set a bad example on my two younger sisters, but my 2 older sisters got pregnant when they were 15 and 16 years old and they got to stay. Why are they kicking me out? My boyfriend told me that he and his family are moving away so he can't stay and help. I feel so stupid to believe that he loved me. His name was Ryan and he was 17. I don't know what to do now. I went to the doctors and he told me that my something levels where high so there are chances that there might be twins or even triplets. My paretns told that was normal because my mom is a triplet and my dad is a twin, and my 2 older and younger sisters are twins. But I now don't know what to do. I know that I want to raise this child or children, but I don't know where to start. No one wants to talk to me, so I have no one to talk to. All I have to say it was an accident, and I didn't want this

Going in tomorrow to find out how many I am having, I just hope I can handle it. But I know that I will because my children should love me for who I am and I will love them for who they are. No one can tell me anything different than that. And Ryan might stay to take on the pregnancy, and my parent I hope change their mind.

Answer 1

I am sorry that your parents are not being supportive to you. You need to find a Pregnancy Crisis Center(Not Planned Parenthood), and get into a support group and help finding a good environment to live in while you are pregnant. You do not need the stress of non-supportive parents,especially if you are carrying multiple babies.After you deliver, hopefully your parents will want to get to know their new grandchildren.
I am glad that you want to have your baby('s).

Answer 2

"It just happened"? No, it didn't "just happen." First of all, take responsibility for your actions. You had sex at too young an age, and what's worse, you weren't responsible about it.

So... what's your question? You have to understand your parents' reasoning. They're looking at history. Sister 1 gets pregnant at 15. Sister 2 is a teen parent. You're sister 3? Oops! Obviously your parents aren't teaching something they should at your house.

You say you didn't want this. Do you want to be a mother? There's your life, babe. Poof! Changed forever.

Give the kid(s) up for adoption and then get on the Depo shot or the pill, if you can't be trusted to keep your pants on. You are NOT mature enough to raise this kid and you would be doing them a huge disservice to keep them. Don't be selfish. You screwed up. Bigtime. Why not trying to do something RIGHT for a change? Go to school. Study hard. Go to college. Be an example your parents can be proud of.

Answer 3

I'm not sure what to tell you. Your ex needs to be more involved, even now. Do his parents know you're pregnant? If not, you or your parents or someone needs to let them know. Have you thought about adoption? I had a baby that was adopted, if you'd like to talk about it, feel free to email me anytime.

*I'm sorry people are being so judgemental. You didn't mention whether or not you used birth control. Maybe you did, maybe you didn't. Regardless, the situation is here. You're already pregnant.

Birth control is obviously never 100% effective. To "Denny" down below, my sister and I have conceived 7 babies, all while on at least one type of birth control (including the ones you recommend) and usually two types. So lay off.

Answer 4

Wow. The people you have in your life are not what I would call supportive. Actually, cold is a better word. How can your parents take their 15 year old pregnant daughter and tell her to leave? Where are you going to go? And, in addition to this, tell you not to set a bad example for your younger sisters. Are they on drugs? Are they from this planet?
Maybe you can go to your school counseler and get help there. Is there a relative you can trust? Your parents are obviously whacked and I wouldn't take any advice from them. You need help with this. Please try to find it wherever you can. Good luck.

Answer 5

all because ryan is moving that doesn't mean he cant send child support...and things like that don't "just happen." but if your older sisters had this happen before they would know what to do and since they were in the same boat as you i don't think they'd disown you. your best bet is to talk to them and ask any questions that you have. and i think they are kicking you out to show your younger sisters that they are drawing the line and if that was to happen with them they'd be kicked out too.

Answer 6

What kind of parents would kick their own child out at 15, tell your parents why your sister got to stay ad you couldn't or just talk to them.If you can't stay at a friends house or relatives house im sure they would let you.And did you use a condom?

Answer 7

Do you have an aunt, older cousin or grandparent that you are close to? Maybe they could provide someone to talk to or provide some help. If not maybe try talking to someone at a local church. .. they may know where you could get some support and assistance.
(eventhough it will be tough I applaud letting the baby (or babies ) live.. my mom was young (15 when I was born) and I thank God every day that she didn't take the easy route. ) Good luck

Answer 8

i say keep the babies do not have an abortion ask ryan if you can move in with him if ur parents kick you out and try to talk your parents into letting you stay. saying things like i know i did wrong but i want to make things right. if you want to email me go ahead! ill listen if you need to talk! good luck my email is [e-mail] and if u have a sn mine is bluepolkadotsxo

Answer 9

If you want, get an abortion
It might sound harsh, but if you can't love or support the child financially or emotionally, it'll be better for the child.
If you're pro-life, adoption is an option, but you'll have to go though the pregnancy and give birth, plus I would think you would get attached to the child.
Good luck with what ever you choose

Answer 10

Try calling 1-800-395-HELP for parenting resources- for housing, look here: http://nurturingnetwork.org/nationalmaternityhomelist.pdf
I am so sorry you're going through this, but there are ppl out there who are happy to help you, I promise! Let me know how it goes!
<3 Kelsey