..im 17yrs old.. i had a miscarriage a year ago on may 27,2006
i was only 16 yrs old =[
since then my whole life changed
since i lost my baby wen i was 9 weeks pregnant.. i been depressd but really depressd, i jst cant handle it anymore, there is no day or night that i wount remember that horrible day
on january 2007 the doctor found out tha im depressd (depression after miscarriage)..since then i have to take almost 7 different pills every day and im sick and tired of taking so much medication but i know thats the only way that will keep me better with anxiety problems..=[..my parents support me alot but i cant stop feeling sad..
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2007-08-06 10:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm sorry for your loss, but maybe you can take this time to decide what you want to do before getting pregnant again. You are way too young to have a baby and there are other things to do before that, like go to college, start a career, get married, buy a house, etc...
* According to a question you asked a few weeks ago you are pregnant now. I think you are just making up questions.
2007-08-06 10:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Although medications, such as SSRI's -are helpful in some cases, others benefit from therapy sessions, group therapy,or help from spirituality. Also realizing that depression is a true illness- not a character flaw or laziness. Some depression is situational or based on certain events, this responds well to therapy, but in the case of a chemical imbalance (such as seratonin or dopamine) meds may be required, at least until the person is out of danger. If the depression is genetic, runs in the family etc.. it is physical. So, that would be like telling a Cancer patient to meditate or go talk to a therapist as a way to treat the cancer. Talk to a professional- there are many treatment modalities now and help is available, in many forms- also on-line support groups and information (avoid the site's where people just dwell or discuss suicide etc..). If suicide is thought of or planned one must get help immediately!!! Good luck
2016-03-16 08:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss, but some things are not meant to be. God works in mysterious ways, but He has a plan for each of us. I hope that in addition to the medication, that you are getting counselling as well. If you've been taking the same pill for like 7 months now and you're not feeling better, maybe you should talk to your doc about trying a different pill.
2007-08-06 11:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel. i lost a baby at nearly 5 months along. just accept that you will feel bad and a part of you will always grieve for what could have been. time will ease your pain. it will get easier, but you will never forget. my child would have been 17 last month and i have never forgotten. i have also struggled with depression for years. what has brought me peace (and i have been on just about every medication there is!) is exercise. try it. walk, jog, cycle. it clears the head and releases endorphins. you may not want to do it, due to the depression and lack of energy...FORCE YOURSELF!!! after a while, you will look forward to it. take care of yourself honey.
2007-08-06 11:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
may I have your email addy to give to someone close to me who also had a miscarriage last year?
....in that same month, coincidentally.
she'd love to chat w/ you, if that's ok.
You should look into a support group. Other women who've been through what you're going through will have so much more understanding, even than your family.
2007-08-06 11:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Dj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kno how u feel I had a miscarriage myself. I was 2 months pregnant and it was a hard lost but I don't think those pills will help. I was younger than u are and what i did was stop blaming myself, than I prayed, and I prayed that my lost child forgave me for my mistake in losing him/her. I think u should do the same. It helped me and remember it's not your fault.
2007-08-06 11:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i lost two baby's at 17 years old this is very common and happens to lots of women its hard but you need to move on with your life
you were very young when you got pregnant see it as a blessing in disguise now you get to go on have a life settle down with the right guy fall in love get married then have kids
i was glad in the end i didn't have them baby's it would of messed my life up I'm now 28 and have 3 beautiful kids and one on the way
good luck
2007-08-06 11:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ mum of 4 ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
sorry for the loss.
2007-08-06 11:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋