what do i do? my parents don't like my fiance! and I'm pregnant! My parents are gonna hate me but i love the guy! what do i do?
2007-08-06 09:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
love him even more for being the father of your baby. your parents wont "hate" you for it. infact if they see that your fiance can handle a baby, they may warm up to him a little.
2007-08-06 09:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do what you were already planning on doing... or so it seems. It's your fiance. Obviously, and rightfully so, it doesn't matter to you how they feel you were going to marry him.
Are you both ready for a child? Then you have nothing to worry about. Have you baby if you want to. And tell your parents... tell them happily that they are going to be grandparents and if they can't come to terms with that then it really will be them that misses out.
Follow your heart. Best of luck to you and your fiance.
2007-08-06 16:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Arneb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is your fiance. Obviously you plan on marrying the guy. It really doesn't matter if your parents like him or not. Your going to get married to him any way. I'm assuming your grown since your engaged.
Your old enough and capable to make your own decisions. If your old enough and capable of saying 'yes' to the man you love and having sex with him, then your old enough to have your baby. You love your family and you love your fiance. The both of them will just have to deal with each other if they want you in their life. Your fiance will have to deal with your parents to keep you in his life.
Also your parents will have to deal with your fiance if they want you in their lives. If that's how you want to situation to go. In the end it's all up to you. You make your own choices and decisions based on whats good for you and your family and the new one that's about to begin. Pray to God and ask his for strength, help, and encouragement.
That's what I do and it never fails. God Speed
2007-08-06 16:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents should have nothing to do with your decision to have a baby.. It's up to you. Don't let them influence you. As long as you fiance' steps up and takes care of the both of you then that's all that matters, and hopefully your parents will see what a stand up guy he is and get to like him more.
2007-08-06 17:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by adrianne M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is their objection? If it's something on the order of, "He's got this drug problem and he beats me sometimes; I support us both, but he takes all my money to feed his Ecstasy habit and he has three kids by other girls already that he doesn't support," dump him and head for the hills with your baby. If he's a good guy who takes good care of you and who will make a fine husband and father, marry him and your parents will likely come around.
2007-08-06 16:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by adoptive mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, my parents hated my guy, too, but after our son was born, it was remarkable how much they decided to get to know him better so that they could see their grandchild. Grandkids can really change parents' minds. Stay healthy and have a good pregnancy!
2007-08-06 16:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by phillipa_gordon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents will be parents, no matter how cool they are or how harsh they are. They may give you grief for a while, but they'll get over it. A grandchild on the way is a wonderful gift for grandparents... they'll be fine...
2007-08-06 16:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♫Mama of One♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not too sure how old you are but I'm assuming that if you have a fiance you are old enough to make decisions without your family.
Good Luck
2007-08-06 16:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you're old enough now that you don't have to worry about your parents. It's your life not theirs. If they want a part of your life and your babies, then they will have to get over themselves. I know this is difficult, but you can do it. Best of luck, and CONGRATS!
2007-08-06 16:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by Kyler's Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, what does it matter. As long as your happy, if your pregnant im takin it that you are a grown woman. And you can make choices for yourself. Congrats on being pregnant :)
2007-08-06 16:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy of 2 little girls<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋