My Bff always bails..should i drop him as a friend??

Question

So me n my bff r like really close and we USED to hangout alot but lately hes just been bailing on me without an excuse..im starting to get tired of it..part of me is about 2 let him go off 2 skool without hangin out with him again but if i do that i know ill b really upset but i dont wanna b bailed on every damn time we make plans 2 hang so should i drop him as a friend or just keep lettin him bail on me??

Answer 1

My friend is like that ALL the time, she always reschedules on the day we plan to hang out.

Don't drop him as a friend, talk to him and ask him when he is available to hang out. Tell him if he bails on you your going to get mad. Tell him your tired of him bailing out on you.

Answer 2

I'd dump him...since you don't need the stress, OR you could just figure he won't show up. My college roommate used to pull the same thing. Finally, I did it to HIM and he was furious! I just said, "Now you know how it feels". And I found other people to hang out with.

Answer 3

well try it back to him to show him ho w it feels and if u cant do that try talkin to him about it and if that doesnt work well yea u should just stop talkin to him..a person shouldn tbe bailed on n e time cuz there not gonna realize it until some thing bad happens to u...

Answer 4

don't make plans with him anymore. When they do decide to make plans with you make sure he comes to you. If he wants to do something invite him over to your house. That way you wont have to wait for him anywhere. your in the comfort of your own home.

Answer 5

drop him as a good friend ,just keep him as a friend.he wont see anything wrong with what he has done until its done to him.he also doesnt care much about your feeling to do that to you.

Answer 6

You know what you have to do so get the guts to do it. Some times you have to do tough things.

Answer 7

talk to him