my girlfriend is pregnant and i dont know what to do,?

Question

well me and my girlfriend, been together since the 7th grade and we now are in tha 11th grade, me and her are super closel, but she's pregnant now wel is only one month a one week, but we dont want to have the baby because,well i live in Texas and if my parent find out there going take me with them to Chicago so i need some help, i want to know what can i do, like get a pill or something so she wont have tha baby!!!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!

Answer 1

You selfish little brat!! You would rather kill an innocent baby than act like a man and face your parents. Unbelievable! You thought you where man enough and ready to be having sex, then now you have to deal with the consequences. The poor child did not ask to come into the world, nor did he/she choose his selfish as* father, or his/her mother.
You can't take any pill, she's already pregnant, and if you take a pill, the baby most likely will be affected and be born with some type of birth defect. Having an abortion, just because you think it's what is most suitable for you to deal with, is WRONG!
You are both a couple of irresponsible children, you wanted to act like adults, now take this as adults, if you don't want to have the baby, GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION! There are plenty couples out there who would give anything to be in your situation and become parents. They have enough love to give the baby, and will give it the chance it deserves, a good life, don't take that away from the innocent child, just because you are only thinking of yourselves.
Next time, to prevent this from happening, DON'T HAVE SEX. You are both obviously a pair of immature, irresponsible children, and need not be doing things that where meant for ADULTS.

Answer 2

They won't kill you. They might be mad at first, but then they will learn to accept it. The fact that you are so far away from the clinic is a good thing. I bet anything that when you man up and tell your parents that you plan on taking care of the baby, that they will show you respect for not taking the cowards way out. If you can't involve her parents, then don't. If you can't involve your parents either, than don't. You can walk into any church near your home and tell the pastor what you are telling us- that you feel that you have no options and you are going to need help so that you can keep the baby, and they can get you monetary and other help, including a place to stay. The government has programs such as WIC, Medicaid, and Food Stamps, in addition to Cash Assistance and housing help to help couples that can't make it on your own. Reach out to these types of assistant programs. You will regret it if she goes through with the abortion. You will think about the baby, and wonder if it was a boy or a girl and you will wonder what they would be like. The baby doesn't have to lose its life, and you don't have to give up the time that you could have with the baby. Don't deprive your future kids of a brother or sister. Oh, and don't let anyone scare your girlfriend into delivery pains. I got an epideral with my first born, and I felt absolutely nothing! And don't worry about hospital bills either, because once you get Medicaid, they pay for everything retroactive back to the date of your application. I really hope everything works out with you and your girlfriend! Congrats on your baby- babies love us unconditionally, BTW.

Answer 3

Sorry to hear this. It must be scary at 17. Im 31 and pregnant for the first time and I find it a little frightening.

Give your parents some credit. They know what it takes to raise a child - they raised you. They know there would be no benefit to taking you to Chicago - away from your pregnant girlfriend and child. You guys need to talk to them together.

But first, you need to havea clear game plan. What do you want to do? It is way to late for a pill so you have 3 options: abortion, adoption or you keep the child. If abortion is your choice, contact Planned Parenthood. If adoption is your choice, I think Planned Parenthood can put you in contact with agencies. If you choose to keep the baby, keep your head up and love that child with every ounce you have.

Everyone can preah that you should have done this, and you should have done that but the fact is that she is pregnant. You can't go back and undo this -- you have to move forward. I guaranteee it will be a lot easier with the support of both of your parents.

Stand by your girlfriend. You are scared so imagine how scared she is -- this is her body and her life. Respect her. You sound like you love her so do the right thing by her.

Best of luck!

Answer 4

If you didn't want a baby, you should have taken the steps necessary to avoid it. You know, there are only about a million forms of birth control out there. Your choices are have an abortion and kill an innocent child or give it up for adoption. Either way, you have to suck it up and be the man you pretended to be when you laid down with her and decided to have sex. There is no magic pill to keep her from having the baby. Besides, what is her take on this? You say that "we" don't want to have the baby, but does that really include her? Have you bothered to tell your parents that they are going to be grandparents? They may have some opinions on this as well, being that it is their flesh and blood that you just want to get rid of. Next time you decide to play in the flower garden with the rest of the adults, make sure you bring the right equipment. You play, you pay. You just learned it the hard way.

Answer 5

Are you sure that she wants to terminate the pregnancy? Also, what kind of parents would rip their son away from his pregnant girlfriend and unborn child? The damage is already done, what would be the purpose of making you move now?

I'm not sure you're thinking about this rationally. Also, if you and she don't want the baby go to planned parenthood and see about your option for adoption. Always a better choice than abortion. I hope it work out for you.

Also to everybody that keeps preaching about unprotected sex:
It is possible to get pregnant while using protection. Maybe they were trying to be as responsible as possible and something happened. Give them a break.

Answer 6

Dude it is way too late for a pill she's pregnant! At this point you don't have any say in whether or not she keeps the baby or if she decides to abort it. You need to step up and be a man since you decided to do the deed that got you in the situation. Support her she is going through a much worse situation then what you are facing!!

Answer 7

It is way past the "day after pill" since she is already 5 weeks pregnant. Now she would have to have an abortion and in Texas a parent has to go with the minor to get an abortion. Sounds like its time to tell both of yalls parents. Its def. time to GROW UP. You thought you were mature enough to have sex then you are mature enough to handle the consequences.

Answer 8

Unfortunatley this is not a good question to ask on Yahoo because you are going to get a lot of bias answers. You really need to sit down with your girlfriend and really talk about what you want to do.

I know you do not want your parents to know, but it really would be a good idea because if she is considering and abortion and something happens in the process, you are going to have more to worry about on your plate.

Sometimes things happen for a reason.

Answer 9

Well, I think that you should keep the baby. Abortion is NOT the answer. At least put the baby up for adoption.

Okay, so you'll have to move to a diffrent state. Whose fault is that? It's your girlfriends & your fault. You got yourself into this situation.

And NO matter what your going to do, your parents will know about the pregnancy. Her parents will have to sign a paper for her to get the abortion if she is not 18+. So, they'll know no matter what.

Good-Luck & no matter what you guys decide to do.
Stay by her side.

Answer 10

She is way past the time for a pill to do anything. You have 3 choices: Have the baby, abort or adoption.