A husband , who is your lover before marriage?
A husband, who is your friend before marriage?
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2007-08-06 06:36:23 · 32 answers · asked by Samar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your friend..because sex fades with old age. You want a good solid companion that loves you even if there is no sex
2007-08-06 06:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A husband who is my friend before marriage. For me, having a lover comes into play only after marriage, and my husband would want to make love to me in the first week of marriage. But if there is no emotional connection there, I would have no problem making him wait until I'm ready(which could be never). IF he was just a guy I married, it could be months before we had relations, and our marriage would've been over before it began. But if he was my friend first, then even if i didn't love him, I'd still do the deed, because I'd be happy to be his wife, and preform a wifely duty. I would want to make him happy, and in turn, he'd want to make me happy. Then love will slowly develop. I'd be VERY hesitant to open myself up like that to a guy I didn't like as a person or couldn't see growing old with.
2007-08-08 15:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A husband,who is your lover before marriage.
2007-08-06 19:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by winemaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about a husband who has your friend and lover before marriage and still is your friend and lover afterwards?
Sounds much better than having to choose between these 2 options.
A marriage without friendship doesn´t work, as well as a marriage without sexual attraction and desire doesn´t work either...
2007-08-06 06:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anita P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually a husband that is both my friend and lover before marriage. If I had to choose one...a husband who is my friend before marriage....the lover part of him can come after wards
2007-08-06 06:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think a friend will make a better husband, not a lover. However the love you will get from a lover you cant from a husband..
2007-08-07 07:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by nolovenogame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that a husband who is your friend before marriage is better. Your friends know everything about you. They know what you like, dislike, wish you could change, want to do over, turn on's turn offs, and a husband who knows all of that KNOWS HIS WIFE. Also, because he knows his wife, he will be an amazing lover. That is the case with my hubby to be. He was a friend in the beginning of our relationship, and that has only caused us to be even closer throughout our relationship. He knows everything about me, knows my strengths weaknesses, and flaws and makes it his mission to know what makes me happy, what makes me tear up... :)
A person who is that in tuned to their spouse is someone who is more than valuable. We each know the other in this way, and that makes for a very happy relationship.
So yes, a husband who is your friend before marriage is better.
2007-08-06 06:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend who becomes ur lover n above all after knowing all aspects positive as well as negative becomes ur husband that is a best husband. My husband is the best husband on the whole universe. Hubby Universe.
2007-08-06 20:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to me,a husband who is your lover after marriage and a husband who is your friend after marriage is a best husband.
2007-08-06 17:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Divya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a best husband should have both qualities, but those husband are perfect who is friend before marriage because he can solve our problems on marriage as friends, he can sheared there problems with each other before married
While other who fall in love they face lot of problems after married
2007-08-06 07:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nabila bibi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a husband who is ur friend b4 marriage because after marriage they will b everything to u not before. in a relationship, one needs a mental connection before he can establish a greater physical connection. the best husband is one who shares your feelings and is always there for u just "like your friend",,,
2007-08-06 06:45:10 · answer #11 · answered by dreamz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋