I can't stand this person.
2007-08-06 06:34:03 · 12 answers · asked by Coltrane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
start habging with new friends that share your interests. there is no good that comes from hanging with people you despise.
2007-08-06 06:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this friend of yours has changed since you've hung out with them, and now you can't stand the person they are NOW. I would be upfront with them, and tell them that you can't really relate to them anymore, and that it's time for both of you to find other people to hang out with. It's hard, but telling this person the truth (don't say you can't stand them, be kind, or try to) Remember, you are not obligated to be friends with anyone! Just tell them that you've moved on, and no hard feelings. Good luck.
2007-08-06 06:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by PURR GIRL TORI 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from hanging out with them. I had a big fight with a good friend, and she ghot on my every last nerve during the past few months of the friendship. We had it out, and stopped talking. Noit saying you should have it out with this person, but just make yourself less available. If they start asking where you are, why you havent been hanging out with them, then tell the truth, that they changed, or whatever. Maybe they don't realize certain things they do that annoy you.
2007-08-06 06:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Spicy!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "friend" once told me that she updates her little telephone directory book (back before cell phones, dude) every six months. Hers was the first number I removed when I began the same 6-month habit.
Your life belongs to you. You are under no obligation whatsoever to continue associating with anyone, I mean anyone, and that includes your family.
If you do not feel that this person, this "friend" and you have anything further to learn from each other (besides tolerance), then by all means discontinue contact with them.
Your life belongs to you. When you allow yourself the freedom to live as you see fit, the things and people you try to avoid out of obligation actually begin to disappear from your life.
Try it.
2007-08-06 06:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by Notallowedtobeurdownasbch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and tell this friend that "you" need a break from them. If this person gets upset just try to convince this person that it isn't them, but "you" you just need a break. This way the other person won't feel hurt.
2007-08-06 06:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol ... well not really, but my sister is in exactly the same position... literally a friend shes had since high school! ... they're 32 now and she still gets annoyed with her...
whenever your friend wants to see you, you must start to make excuses why you dont want to see them... make it a gradual thing but cut it down to virtually never seeing them ...
you might find you just need a big break from this person, then you might be able to handle them in small doses!...
good luck in shrugging them off!!
2007-08-06 06:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Rєвє¢¢α 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time out for sometime. Long break maybe
2007-08-06 06:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop hanging out with them
2007-08-06 06:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by rayhab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him / her down and talk to him / her see tell him what bothers you. either he can change it or, it means your friendship ends here...
2007-08-06 06:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in a nice way....not to harsh, but so she can understand...
2007-08-06 06:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥SkAtE-LiFe-RoCkErS♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋