i dream my partner is cheating on me WHAT does this mean?

Answer 1

I dreamt this...........and it came true......even had the right nationality of the sl*t correct and all...how freaky is that?

I am not saying he is.........but maybe you feel things are not right between you.........if this is the case, put it right now, coz there is no pain like this, believe me!

Answer 2

Dreams and sleep are just tools to 'clear the air'. If you had any unresolved issues, whether you knew it or not, and had no sleep (or dreams) you couldn't work through them in your subconscious and would affect your waking life. That's why people use the phrase "I'll sleep on it" when making decisions as it can make all the difference by using the tool of sleep.

Apologies for digressing from the question but my point is that you may not be insecure - you could just had a fight, been upset with him for something or just feeling neglected.

Maybe you wish that you could spend some more time with him and may be you feel guilty because he wants to spend more time with you or that there are pressures from preventing both of you from being close. In my opinion, it is about the closeness or intimacy that is missing from your relationship.

The best way to interpret this dream is if you describe the content of the dream to someone as though they were not from earth i.e. describe your definition of things and you will soon find the answer.

Unlike some of the answers on here, I hope I've offered some CONSTRUCTIVE advice

:-).

Answer 3

I have the same dreams in every relationship I've been in.
I fully believe it DOESN'T mean your partner is cheating on you.
I think it just means it's something you think about. Especially if it's happened to you in the past and has effected you. Or if you have a friend who's recently been cheated on. It could be that you saw and affair in a movie or on a show. Basically, don't read into it too much.

Answer 4

That your partner may not be cheating but you have supicions that need to be checked or validated. If you think that they are you will know it by their reaction towards, you the kiss, the sex and the way they treat you. If they are not cheating unless you feel like you were having a premonition I don't think there is anything to worry about.

You can watch and see and make sure that there are no telltale signs of cheating. Also, you need to make sure that it is not you and your mistrusting your partner because of past issues. Take time and enjoy your partner and don't be accusatory because you can end up hurt and alone.

Answer 5

It could mean several things (I am not a psychoanalyist, but I'll try):

1. You could be feeling insecure about your relationship, or about your life in general. Maybe you feel like your life/relationship is out of control, and are subconsciously worried.

2. You may have jealousy issues about your partner.

3. Your partner has been acting differently towards you lately, and you don't know why.

4. You have had thoughts of infidelity yourself.

Just my 2 cents. Dreams don't necessarily always mean something, and sometimes the messages our subconscious sends us can be unclear. If the dream becomes recurring, it may be more significant and you may want to run it by a dream analyist.

Answer 6

This dream basically means that you are having some trust issues with your partner whether you realize it or not. You should talk to them to find out what's going on and if they get really defensive as you keep asking or avoid a straight answer, stay suspicious. However, don't blame your partner until you actually see them do something with YOUR eyes.

Answer 7

I think maybe you're insecure. Your subconscious is showing you the fears you may not want to face in conscious life and if it begins affecting you in reality you have to deal with it.
Tell him, who better than your partner to help you in a time of need and self doubt.
A woman has a sixth sense but dreams are of a whole different world.
Do you feel and honestly think he would do that to you?
Try counseling if the above doesn't work.

I am a true believer of "My conscience is clear so I trust you, what are you doing?" Anytime I questioned infidelity (twice) I was prepared with the solid logical evidence that triggered my doubts.

Answer 8

it means u r very insecure....it happens with me too all the time...i really take my time to trust people and when im dating initially i always have these dreams and phases of paranoia....just try to get rid of these feelings unless there is something that u should realy be concerned about....maybe ur past partner cheated or maybe u saw cheating in the family and thats why its a scary thing for u....hang in there and just try to trust ur partner...

Answer 9

Well, sometimes spouses get worried about things like that, and unless you're a physic I suggest that you try to put a little more trust in your spouse. But if this continues to bug you talk to your partner, ya never know, maybe they are dreaming the same thing about you!

Answer 10

If you like the dream it means you are kinky.
If you don't like the dream then you are feeling insecure in your relationship with your partner.

Answer 11

I had a dream my bf cheated on me once with a girl i'd just met and then it happened.
strange things dreams.

dreams are ur subconsious in which things you worry about come to light. Often their just nothing,
i hardly ever have dreams that i remember so i take no notice, but sometimes you have a dream that makes u think about something that may be happening in your life.