I am sixteen and I have never gotten drunk, never really partied, never had a bf,never hooked up with anyone, never even been kissed. And truthfully I don't really like partying (when I have gone) and I have no wish to hook up with random guys. Is this weird?
2007-08-06 05:13:57 · 13 answers · asked by lexusright 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
plus my parents really trust me and i don't want to do anything to jeopardize that. I am very truthful with them. ex. i went to germany on exchange for a few weeks this summer with some kids from school who all wanted to go to the bars. I had to go with my roomate because we only had one key. I told my parents that I had tried a sip of some drinks but nothing more. Which is the truth and they completely trusted me. I think I am really lucky
2007-08-06 05:29:53 · update #1
No, everybody does themselves, meaning everyone is diff, don't be someone your not, while actually more then 50% of girls are like you, even though it doesn't seem like it...
2007-08-06 05:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Joule 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you seem to have your head on straight, more so than some of your peers. That's a good thing! Don't fall into the "everybody else is doing it so I should be" category. You don't have to be drinking and hooking up with guys at your age. Just concentrate on school and what you find enjoyable and not worry about what you think everyone else is doing.
2007-08-06 12:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not weird.... just a good level headed Teen..... there should be more like u..... Your time will come.... u know waiting for someone special is important, and it will be that much better when u do find a boyfriend. And partying is fine but over doing it and making a fool of yourself is overrated.... the only one enjoying themselves are the people who laugh at the people who make fools of themselves..... I applaude u way to go....
2007-08-06 12:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by dobu256 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16.That's still a kid and if you don't want to do any of those things, then it's fine.That doesn't make you weird, I think that makes you a better person.Most people your age would get a bf or party all day, but you're different.Don't get influenced by other people or feel weird because you're not like them.You're who you are,be proud of that âº
2007-08-06 12:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by m○○♥m○○ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, while you will have an excellent job, a wonderful husband who was your first love, and living in a great house- all these other kids will be drunk, in jail with DUI's, in their 20th dysfunctional relationship, living in some crappy apartment living pay check to pay check.
Try not to worry about what is weird and normal, and continue doing what will make you a much better adult!
2007-08-06 13:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not weird you are living the life you are supposed to. Don't ever let anyone make you feel bad about your lifestyle. The teens who make bad decisions will end up with a bad life. Just focus on your school work and your future.
2007-08-09 03:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by nubian princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking if you're weird??
NO!!
You are soo not weird. You sound like your a very intelligent young woman.
You're 16! You don't need to be doing anything you don't want to do..and you have your whole life ahead of you to do these things if you change your mind.
Stick to what your heart is telling you, and don't be forced to do anything just because some other people your age are doing them.
2007-08-06 12:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all- b who u r!! i was labeled 'weird' cuz i didn't look like everyone else or do what everyone else did. i did my own thing which made me happy. you sound like ur doing what makes you happy. don't let other peoples' opinons bother you, opinons vary, 'george' could say your weird. but ' sally' thinks your awsome-either way it doesn't matter.. its all in how u see urself. if your happy with who u r- then don't change it for someone else. the most importants persons opninon to you should be your own. if u like to fart in front of people and laugh- then go for it! (j/k LOL) i'm just saying be ur own person, we have enough people acting like everyone else..don't flock with the sheep! do ur own thing or u may loose urself and become one of thise mindless, annoying, waste of oxygen & space 'stupid girls'....Be URSELF...
ok thats my opinon, it doesn't matter but there is it ;)*wink*;)
2007-08-06 12:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by KittyKatKarin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, you're only 16. You have plenty of time to do stupid things. You;'re not weird -- the rest of the world is, if you belive all the buzz, which I don't.
2007-08-06 12:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by merrybodner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is very good! It pays to be modest sometimes, and not just one of those wh**s that hooks up w/ anyone or everyone!
2007-08-06 12:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋