ok so last night was the worst night of my life!
i had a huge fight with my "best friend".
she got mad because i had her 3 on my top over myspace.
i really had her 2ncd but the new layout swicthed everything around. she is always swithcinng me on hers except only to the 2nd.
but i had her second but again my stupid layout.
then i had her 1st cuz she got mad .. but then my stupid layout switched it agian so she was 4th. then this morning she re did her stupid about me thing and said that " i dont beleive in best friends anymore the just make everything worse"
"my hero is "some girl" and ill always love her." (as a friend)
is this acting like a best friend ??
what should i do?
should i just find a new best friend? :(
and dont bother saying get a new layout cuz i already did.
and plz dont say anyhing rude cuz i really am not in the mood for it.
2007-08-06 05:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by Hi there :D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What is more important, the friendship or getting bent out of shape about myspace? Talk to her about it. Let her know that you value her friendship and you don't want to be arguing over something as stupid as myspace. Don't get me wrong - I have a myspace account myself so I'm not knocking anyone having an account. I'm just saying that myspace is myspace is myspace. It's not worth losing a friend over.
2007-08-06 05:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha...wow...yeah myspace is just a firey pit for friendships! No doubt.
.I just deleted my myspace all together a couple months ago, because all it did was cause confusion between me and some friends...then there was mild drama. Not to mention I encountered the same dilemma you're having right now, I would change my layout and then all my friends would be moved all over the place, then my "best friend" (who is no longer) would get all mad because she ASSUMED that I did it on purpose or that I was mad at her?! WTF? So then she would post stupid stuff on her bulletins or on the quote part by your picture saying the same things your friend is saying...and whining and trying to make everyone feel guilty or sorry for her in some way. It was ridiculous and immature.
.*So anyways, your friend sounds like my ex-friend...she's a drama queen, and she likes to get attention for anything and everything. Hence..why she made those comments on her page, because she knew everyone would inquire and want to know "what happend?" and "why" and "who she's talking about?" etc. therefore giving her the attention she craves.
.Haha...sorry to over analyze your situation...but that's the way I see, and from experience with the same type of friend...it makes sense to me.
.Anyways there really isn't too much you can do persay, and brown nosing, isn't an option. However all you can do is just play it cool and just put her back in the spot where you originally had her at, and then post a bulletin or something and give a brief explaination for what happened with your "top__" and then just be like "Hey guys...so I don't know if anyone noticed, but I've been changing my profile a lot, and sometimes it causes my "top" to go all over the place...so I'm not mad at anyone or anything. It's just the layouts I choose, somehow interfere with my "top" and then I have to go back and put everyone where they used to be! So no worries, I'm fixing it!!!"
.Or something like that, then she will read it and hopefully take a hint?.
Hope it all works out for you.
2007-08-06 12:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls argue about who is the best friend etc. etc. when they are young. As you get older, you do not worry about who is best at this or that. One person might be best for going to the movies and someone else might be best a sleepover. You can talk to her and explain that you both need more than one friend. Tell her as life goes on you are both going to need each other a lot and not to let some computer problem split you up. In other words, a friend is a friend is a friend. Period. Myspace just make young people act even more like young people...you can rise above it.
2007-08-06 12:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Friends in general don't fight about that, not best friends. Well, actually they probly do if they're 11, do you fit in that category? Because any older you guys are just being immature
2007-08-06 12:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Rara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋