Me, Charley(my ex) and Steph(my ex's bestfriend) always hang about together at school and I asked Steph a few days ago if we could meet up sometime(I know she'd probably be doin sommat girly but I'm used to taggin along now) and she said she's not sure about it and I want to know why?
2007-08-06 04:49:16 · 16 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm not aiming to date I jus want to hang about with her steph has a boyfriend.
2007-08-06 04:55:16 · update #1
Hi Corey, When you asked her did you point out that you wanted it to be just as friends? She may not want to upset her friend or her boyfriend by hanging out with you.
She may think you have an ulterior motive, and fancy her. Its better to just hang with her when she is with her friends.
When She is not doing girly things with her friend, she may just want some time with her boyfriend alone. Respect her privacy and if she wants to hang with you she will.
2007-08-06 06:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It probably seems weird to her and I may be wrong but didn't I read on another post that you asked her out in past and she rejected you.
Maybe she feeling that you still like her or something or maybe it to do with fact you are her best friend's ex and although she chatting to you at school, she feels meeting outside school is just too strange a thing to do and so she needs time to think.
Girls are like that - they tend to stick together - no matter what goes on!
Good luck hun!
Lx
2007-08-06 05:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by SunshineApple 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give her a Little time thinking of it.Maybe she didn't expect you would ask her that question.She felt confused.She had said she wasn't sure which means I'm surprise but I would go out whit you.You should invite her again but don't say it's a date, say that it's a meeting between friends.And when you start talking,laughing.....you will see that things will happen themselves and the meeting could became date
2007-08-06 05:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by reni 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe she just does'nt want a boy hearing their girly conversation. I'm sure its no hard feelings.lol
2007-08-06 07:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi....
sorry to hear.
she's probably not interested in you as someone to date for whatever reason.. but that doesn't mean other girls would feel the same.
i'm sure there are girls out there who'd enjoy your company. look around and ask a few out! take care too
2007-08-06 04:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe meeting a boy and that would be awkward having you along
2007-08-06 04:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by Charlene 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would any self-respecting girl want to have anything to do with a spotty faced creep like you ?
2007-08-06 06:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mr Hyde 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe it's something charley said or maybe there is something she does not want you to know about.whatever it is,i hope it gets settled.
2007-08-07 09:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
caus eshe most likely sees that u rn't over her and that u want to spend more time with her but shes scared that if he BF shes u and her together to much he'll get angry
GB
2007-08-06 05:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Wind Driven Wanderer 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh the typical girly attitude... If we get attention, our ego levels rise...so just take it easy, she'll be the first one to say something very soon!! :)
2007-08-06 04:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋