I know I need change but I never do anything abt it. I want a new job, new apartment, new life, but I never do anything about it. I just stay the same for days, months on end. I don't know what to do abt it.
2007-08-06 04:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dear Waterlily,
We all procrastinate at times. Don't think you're the worst, there are probably thousands out there who would argue with you. Keep your chin up!
Sometimes, when we procrastinate, it is because we need inspiration. For those who put things off for later, need change to occur gradually. Little steps towards their goal!
If I were you, I would get a notebook specifically for this idea, this new life. Nothing else goes in this single notebook. Start by writing down what you would like to see changed. Make paragraphs for each aspect of change and list underneath what you want in this particular need.
Ex: New Apartment:
1. Two bedroom
2. One bath
3. Dishwasher/Disposal
4. $$$ amount that you can afford.
5. Nice Landlord.
6. Etc...
Ex: New Job:
1.What am I really wanting to do?
2. What job benefits me the most?
3. What jobs are available now? (update daily or weekly)
4. How much money do I need to make?
5. Etc..
Be specific in your questions and answers. On the paper, make yourself happy in all areas. Find out what it is that you really want! When this is all written out, the idea of a new apartment is not overwhelming anymore! You know what you want, you know how much you can spend and you're ready to go shopping. You are then able to see it as an adventure.
Your job will be the same way as well as any other thing on the list!
Make sure you answer all of your questions before you set out on this venture! This will give you more confidence and step. There will be no procrastination once you see your desires fulfilled in the pages. You'll know what you need and will long to see it through!
This is what I do when I find myself procrastinating. I thought at one time that I was the worst too!
2007-08-06 05:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just scared to change it all. You are unhappy now, but you know exactly how unhappy you will be if you stay where you are. If you took a risk and it didn't work, you could be even worse off than when you started. Just maybe you could change it for the better, but it's not worth the risk just yet. You should just stay miserable for a few more years. Why take a chance at being happy?
2007-08-06 04:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by shortstop42000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 08:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a plan and stick to it! Start with one thing at a time and dont move on to the next until you have mastered the first thing you want to change. Break down your goal by making a list of the small steps you can take in order to reach it.
I would start with the new job, do something you enjoy and happiness will follow!
Good luck!
2007-08-06 04:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by lookin4hope 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol... people procrastinate because they're are sure that no matter how little time have have left to complete something... it will still be enough time... even it in reality... its not...
like when i was in high school and i had a paper due... i would end up waiting till the night before to start it and i'd plan the school day (when it was due) around finishing it...
it was bad...lol
girl move while you can...
2007-08-06 04:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by sexi_luv128 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only a fool would do the same thing over and over again and expect different results.
The only thing good to procrastinate is procastination itself.
2007-08-06 04:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by blind_chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be the worst you would have to be perfect. I don't know or think that you are.
2007-08-06 04:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, I'll answer that question later....
maybe next week, or next month... but not now.
2007-08-06 05:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by Adorabilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are on yahoo answers.
2007-08-06 04:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by love 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll get back to you about this tomorrow.
2007-08-06 04:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by lunatic 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋