Sexy resort vacation?

Question

Ok, so I'm trying to come up with ideas to spice things up with my husband of 17 years and I came across an idea I'm looking for some thoughts.

Has anyone been to a 'clothing optional' vacation resort? I looked and they have them in Cancun and places like that.

What are they really like? Do people really walk around totally naked? Is that weird? Do you think this would be a good idea to spice up a relationship, or is it gross?

I think it would be fun to try, but I really have no idea what I am getting into.

Answer 1

Honey, if you both feel comfortable with it....then go for it!!! But I have heard that there is no hanky panky aloud on the beaches....don't know if that's true or not!! Going to a "normal" resort and strutting around in a sexy bikini will lead to more sizzle....you can walk around nude in your house!! If you're relationship needs some spice, try some s** toys, couples who play together, stay together they say. I don't think it's weird or gross....it's just depends on how comfortable you would both feel....is it seeing each other nude in a public place or seeing other people nude that would turn you'se on??? Something you would have to seriously think about. Good luck!!

Answer 2

Golden Girl some folks are more then at home in spots like this while others are more just there for the voyeaur aspect of the experience. Certainly people do walk around minus their clothes, thus the title clothing optional. Before you go and book this vacation I would suggest that you have a good heart to heart discussion with your partner and make sure that he feels the same as you regarding comfort level or taking part in this type of vacation. You know your husband better than all us strangers what would be a good idea for vacation for the two of you but need to address it with your man first. Best of luck and happy vacation.

Answer 3

You will likely have a wonderful time. Look up the naturist and nudist references provided here and via the web. We have been to two; Paradise Lakes in Florida and Desert Shadows in Palm Springs, CA and had a great time at both.

You soon will be comfortable being nude and wonder why you did not do it years ago.

Answer 4

Sexier people wear clothes.
If their happens to be an attractive girl she is surrounded single men pushing the boundaries. Must of the time the attractive women leave in disgust very quickly.

Answer 5

Having been to several nudist or clothing optional resorts
in the U.S and in mexico, and in St. Martin .
These type of resorts are just like any other resort except that you may be nude or clothed.
The ppl are just everyday ppl and are of all ages, sizes, races, nudists are just ordinary folks like you, except without clothing and happen to be more happy and aware of themselves and mentallly more at ease with themselves than a textile person because being naked with other ppl is like leaving all the stress and hangups of the material world behind and discovering who you really are as a person and not being ashamed of what you look like or not worried if anyone cares what you look like. Going to naturist/ nudist/ clothing optional resorts or places is very much more relaxing and pleasant than going to textile places. ppl at these resorts who are nude can get to know one another alot better in personality and the mind and see into the soul of ppl much more effectively. If you never been to a nude beach or naturist resort or clothing optional club / resort keep in mind that being nude at these places is not about going to orgies or groups having open copulation it is about being sensual and being free in mind, body and soul. If you haven't been nude in front of complete strangers and would or want to try nudism I would suggest looking or browing to the american association for nude recreation AANR or the naturist society TNS, each has several articles about womens concerns and nudity. If you do decide to go and do decide to be nude with your companion as a couple you may find that being nude together with a group of ppl is non threatening and natural you maybe a little shy or scared to try being nude with others at first but after a few minutes all concerns disappear and it becomes natural once you realise no one is going to hurt or touch you. I guess the best way to think about nudism is we were born clothes free as our creator intended the human species to be only our vanity and ppls self imposed ways of being brought up by the beliefs of religion and the victorian/ puritan based laws to think that being nude with others is immoral and wrong except in marriage (I am not saying that religious values are wrong but I choose not to adhere to these values) so explore the concept of being nude within yourself to see if you are comfortable enough with your marriage and your own self to accept naturism for what it is and enjoy being in touch with your fears and anxiety because when you are nude all these fears will go away and discover who you really are I think you and your mate will be alot happier

Answer 6

That decision should be left to you and your hubby. It depends on how comfortable you feel about your body and sharing that with others that are complete strangers.

Me personally would not ever do that, but that doesnt mean it isnt right for you.

Answer 7

"go out to Eden" A macho, hedonistic photographer seeks out his sexual fantasies at a motel owned by means of a female. After submitting himself to sexual slavery, the two fall in love. meanwhile, 2 conservative police officers have long previous undercover to infiltrate the corporation.

Answer 8

Let me just paint a picture for ya.... Overweight NAKED men and women playing volleyball....if you're cool with that and can watch it with a straight face I say go for it!!

Answer 9

Hmmmm.... tough one because some people may be into this, and others would be uncomfortable.