2007-08-06 04:01:17 · 39 answers · asked by its not that serious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No but, then they would need to get counseling with the one they cheated on. People can change if they want too.
2007-08-06 04:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a person cheats on you once, it is more than likely that they will do it again. Yes, I definitely do believe this 100%. However, I do not believe that just bc a person cheated in a previous relationship that they will cheat in every relationship. There is still a high chance of it happening, but it is not as likely as if it was with the same person.
2007-08-06 04:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not always. You will have to keep an eye on them more closely in the future though. Sometimes people cheat but regret it after and sometimes they don't. Each person is different.
I was cheated on and I tried to let it go but I couldn't. It affected every relationship after that too. I am alone now and can't find the strength to trust again. Cheating is like a poison. Sometimes it kills everything it touches.
I hope you have better luck than I did.
2007-08-06 04:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there are countless examples of people who cheated once and then never did it again. So no, not necessarily. BUT... in relationships the past is often the best predictor of the future. For every person that cheated once and repented, a dozen people will cheat and cheat and cheat again. I, for one, would not be willing to take that chance with someone with a cheating past.
2007-08-06 04:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer would probably be yes, if that person cannot be stable within a relationship that they are in and they cannot be committed to just one person then yes they will always cheat. I often believe love isn't even the aspect of cheating, but probably a physical need.
2007-08-06 04:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by lainexperiment2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you handle it.
If they cheated and were caught and stopped no one learned anything and the underlining problem that made cheating acceptable is still there.
With my wife I judged the situation and gambled on the out come and won. She LEARNED that how she was feeling and how she was looking at things was not accurate. She learned that taking that road is VERY HARD. She learned that feelings can misguide you. She learned that I was still funny and charming. She learned that some people should not be trusted. She learned that a nice civil divorce would never happen. She learned that her problems would follow her. She learned that I was not fault for her lack of happiness. She learned a lot and I don't think she will forget her lessons too soon, but I don't trust you 100% and I think its better that I don't. Forgive, but NEVER FORGET.
2007-08-06 05:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends, I know somebody who cheated and it ruined what they had so bad and they could not repair it. It was an awful experience and they ended up suffering more for it. That person never id it again.
If the person has a history of cheating chances are they will always be that way.
2007-08-06 04:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Few things with regard to humans "always" happen...however repeat behavior by cheaters happens frequently enough that the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is quite common, if not accurate.
Chances are higher someone who has cheated will do so again, than for someone who has never cheated to do it for the first time.
2007-08-06 04:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband cheated on me, and I forgave him for the sake of our marriage and children, he cheated on me again about 3 years after that, he was just more careful not to get caught so quickly. I did not forgive him and divorced him on the second time. He suffered alot after the break-up as he wanted the perfect little family and the side dish, and he could not have it both ways with me. He lost alot, he is now remarried and his new wife has a zero tolerance policy, and rumor has it he does not cheat out of fearing of loosing her too. I think he would cheat again if opportunity not to get caught came his way.
2007-08-06 04:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I do. I know a couple that stayed together after she cheated on him. She told him it was a big mistake and it would never happen again. She went through the whole deal saying it was a mistake and blamed it on the alcohol. It wasn't 60 days later she did it again. Once someone knows that they can get away with it, they go for it.
2007-08-06 04:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by the_wayward1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋