1.marry a person with a kid?
2.have your first kids by them that will be their second?
3.feel your kids will ever be as special to them like their first kid is to them?
4.feel their second birth will be as special to them as this first is to you?
5.Think that, I saved myself for the right person, I wish they did that for me?
6. want to kill the old kid's other parent(not literally) because they stole that 1rst birth experience away from you?
5 questions in 1 but everyone likes list right?
2007-08-06 03:57:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never!! I don't have kids and would never have kids with a man that already has kids. I want us to go through the experience of being first time parents together for our first child..
Well if He were "Bill Gates" I wouldn't mind if he had 200 kids..lol
2007-08-06 04:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes, kids are special no matter where they come from. Why would this child be any less special than the first?
4. Each birth is special, no matter if it is with the same person or not. Would you have the same question for two people that had two children together?
5. If you think that way then your answer to #1 would be NO.
6. I think that is a ridiculous way to feel. If this is your child it is still YOUR first birth experience.
What I think needs to be noted here is that a second child is not a lesser child in any way, shape or form\. So what, if it is your first and their second? It doesn't matter. Will the second child you have be a lesser child to you? I think you need to put yourself in the other persons shoes....or frankly just talk to them about your worries. If you can't talk to them about it then you have bigger problems.....like you shouldn't be with them.
2007-08-06 11:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by mv_alva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would consider marrying someone who has kids already, but it would depend on how much chaos and drama exists with the ex.
As for kids with him, no. For all the reasons you mention in your questions, plus a whole lot more, this is not a good idea. Jigsaw families bring an enormous amount of chaos to the lives of the children and give them confusing messages about "my children", "his children", "our children". Kids have enough on their plates - they don't need that too.
2007-08-06 11:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by banana6464 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this is the kind of stuff that worries you about getting involved with someone with a kid... Then you need to keep on steppin.
2007-08-06 11:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Shootsscores 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I could never be with someone else who has kids by other people. That's just not my thing.
As for the other questions, you have some serious psychological and insecurity issues you need to deal with.
2007-08-06 11:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
well, the answer is that if you love someone and you want to share your life with them and have achild with them and be a family it doesnt matter how had kids when and with who. live in the now.
2007-08-06 11:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by eb 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
6
and 1
2007-08-06 11:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are truely in love nothing would matter. All and everything would be fine.
2007-08-06 11:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Good luck!
2007-08-06 11:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋