Can anyone honestly tell me that theire happy with theire love life & truly have a great honest loving relationship with theire girlfriend/boyfriend..husband or wife. That they are really with theire love of theire life and would never evr do anything to hurt one another.
Or is everyone unhappy with theire spouse & arguing all the time and wishing they were with someone else??
2007-08-06 03:38:46 · 19 answers · asked by liza 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN WITH THAT PERSON?
2007-08-06 04:07:45 · update #1
to be honest, i am very happy with my partner. we are best friends and are happy to fufill each other. yesterday we were fighting like cats and dogs but its normal to get into little tiffs, that doesnt mean we arent happy.
2007-08-06 03:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been very happy for the 3 years of our relationship. We very rarely argue and we mesh well together. Communication is the key to happy relationship. You have to love each other and share the pants. One person shouldn't be in control of the other one. Love yourself and don't be afraid to spend some time alone or with friends. We take time for ourselves and as a couple which is sometimes hard to do having 2 children under the age of 2, but we manage.
2007-08-06 05:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dani&Morgan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, I am very happy in my marriage. I have known my husband for 15 years( married almost 8 years) and I can truly say that I love him with all my heart. He is my best friend and the I know I can count of him to be there throught it all.
does he drive me crazy sometimes?- YES. I drive him nuts too.
do I ever want to truly hurt him- NO! Because it would hurt me , and my family also.
You probably hear the negative side more often from friends because they need someone to vent to about their relationship, and they hope you will understand.
2007-08-06 03:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by chickemama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am. I'm very happy in my relationship. I think it takes getting to know your partner and communication, but we absolutely adore each other. We have taken the time to really ask questions and really get to know the ups and downs. Our conversations are open and honest and thorough you know? He is an open book about everything in his life and I'm the same. Nothing is perfect, dont get me wrong, but that is also a part of the beauty of our relationship. We take the good with the bad and really talk things through.
I would never do anything to hurt him... I just couldn't. And he is the same with me.
2007-08-06 03:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...as happy as I've ever been, no question. My wife and I enjoy the same things, we work at the same place, we both make good money, and our love life is great! I couldn't ask for a better relationship than what I have!
2007-08-06 03:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Coach E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 17 years and we dated a year and a half before that. We have a great relationship. We have never cheated on each other and we are very honest with each other.. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. There are people who are in a loving and a committed relationship out there..
2007-08-06 04:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Monnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are very very happy we are always telling the other we love them. We do nearly everything together and yet we still do things separately.
We have arguments and don't agree on everything but we just love each other so much it doesn't matter.
It's about give and take as well if she wants to do something new I try it too and vice versa. If one of us doesn't like it then we let it go.
There are rules to a happy marriage.
1. Give and Take
2. See rule number 1
2007-08-06 03:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by PokerPlayer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm definetly happy in my relationship and since my husband tells me every day that he adores me I'd have to say that he is too.
Personally I think life is too short to stay with anyone who argues with you all the time and if you don't want to be with that person you should just leave.
2007-08-06 03:46:03 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been marries 33 years (I just answered another question saying 32 but it's 33).
I still love my wife very much.
BTW - I travel on business frequently, not that that makes things better or worse but some couples seem unable to deal with this kind of life style.
I don't cheat -neither does she.
2007-08-06 08:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bruce M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To say whether or not a relationship is good you have to look at the big picture. NO relationship is perfect, but does the good outweigh the bad? Only you can decide that. My marriage is good, but I do occasionally want out. Hate to say this, but it is usually when my hormones are raging. Does he sometimes do stupid things? Sure, we all do. But overall I would have to give him a 9 out of 10 on the good husband scale. Unless I’m PMSing, then I might give him a 2!
2007-08-06 03:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by motorcyclegrandmama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes - me! I have been with my Fiance for 3, almost 4 years and we have a 2 year old daughter together. He is my soul, my heart, my rock. I would do anything for him. If anything happened to hime I wouldn't know what to do. He loves me just as much and does soooo much for me. Just the other night he went to the grocery store and picked up some soda water for me to mix with our drinks and when I tasted it I said I don't really like it and he said he'd go to the store and get me what I wanted after so many times of me saying you don't have to do that...he still went cuz he loves me and will do anything for me. I would've done the same for him but it's just those little things that he does that makes things so special. I love him soooo much!
2007-08-06 06:02:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋