my husband is crazy about girls..we are in Brazil.
when his friend come to home they always tease me..that my husband is crazy about girls..I also saw him..doing this when he is with me ...or not he is always talking about girls...
when i told him do not do this its hurt me..but he dont care..
i went shopping with my husband and his friend and his wife..
that women talking to my husband only, not me..even she touch my husband she is touching my husband hair she is selecting
jaket for him..and help him to wear..I was shocked...even they are talking too much..its mean he is realy too much talking with girls...if same thing happen with me I am sure my husband tell me that I am loose.character.. .I hnot cooked any thing but he went out side and had lunch and dinner..he dont care about me I ate somthing or not..
should I leave him...I dont want to stay with that kind of man..
he dont care me..my feeling he always talk with me like I am doormat
2007-08-06 01:29:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to leave him but also I want to teach him a lesson..
2007-08-06 01:30:47 · update #1
wow, thats so sad.
I hope you find the answer to your problem
good luck and best wishes
2007-08-06 01:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No woman deserves to be treated like a 'doormat'! Although a divorce right now sounds like a good solution to a bad marriage, try a separation for the time being. He's not going to change his behavior over night and without you around, he'll soon discover what he has lost.
Do you have some place else that you could go for a while? When he is gone to work. just pack up a few essential and important belongings , leave a note explaining the reason why you are leaving but don't let him know your whereabouts. He needs to get his act together and act like he is married. And these other women who are chasing after him knowing that he is a married man, have no respect for any one including themselves.
2007-08-06 08:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are put in this position. Before you do anything be sure to tell your husband how unhappy you are. If he doesn't do any thing then just leave. If you try to get even is might backfire or go wrong and you are better than that.
It would be better to leave and find some one better. Life is too short to be unhappy.
Good Luck
2007-08-06 08:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I am so sorry...
I would leave him, let him sit at home by himself
don't give in and go back!!! If he comes looking for you then he knows what he has lost
and he has a lot of changes to make
if he doesn't come back, move on and find a man that will LOVE and care about how you are feeling
2007-08-06 08:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by LadyinOz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband seems sending you a message. he is looking for something from you that he finds in some girls. if he says some downpoints about you, i think you need to work it out to win his heart over other girls. in the first place you are the wife so you are the only one that has right for him. don't let your husband fall into other girl's hand if you love him. fight for him. don't be a desperate wife, show him the "you" when he first date you and ask you to marry him.
2007-08-06 08:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Angelo R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your husband and tell him how it makes you feel. If he fails to understand, then I would consider moving out. You deserve respect from your husband.
2007-08-06 08:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's sleeping with his friend's wife, sorry to say.
Forget the lesson. Just leave. You can do better.
2007-08-06 08:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by NinaFromNewEngland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. if i was in your place, i would start flirting with other men infront of him, to a maximum limit. then if he say anything, i will just treat him like a doormat and ofcourse will leave him.
2007-08-06 09:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Seh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say try to talk it out one more time, then make him jealous if ya really wanna teach him a lesson. but if he still doesnt get it and your this unhappy, leave him
2007-08-06 08:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to teach him lesson than stay with him and teach him daily. may be he want you to leave and you are ready to live. love him because love is biggest power. i am sure he will feel your feelings and love you to love.
please maintain relation with your husband. beacuse leaving is very easy and staying is difficult. learn to live with difficulties. god is with you
2007-08-06 08:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl...if he dont care about you......then dont care for him too....if he sees you getting mess up maybe it will cheer him up.....dont hurt yourself too much...get out and pamper yourself..go to the salon first then go out to the mall with your friends...enjoy yourself dont think about him......think of yourself.......love yourself....let him feel that you dont need him too...even though deep inside you do......dont show him any feelings that you need him.......let him know that your okey without him.......but girl just prepare yourself for something to happen your husband is showing sign of separation but before that let him know what he will missed if he will go away.........pamper yourself...do something that would make you feel good and look good.....good luck girl :)
2007-08-06 08:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by dezz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋