why haven't people evolved enough as a whole to put sex in a healthier perspective?

Question

as evident by all the infidelities of high profile people in the news as well as your average joe

Answer 1

Good question. But evolution does not work evenly, you know. Gene pools change slowly, and so does social evolution (which is not genetic). I personally believe that we are dividing up into two species, which may take several centuries. But there are the evolutionary and the Devolutionary strains. The dumbing down of America, for example, is creating a Devo strain because intelligent people generally do not marry stupid people, and stupid people generally do not marry intelligent people. In a few centuries, we may be rather like "Planet of the Apes," with two distinct species, but both will be derived from the current human genetic stock.

Answer 2

It is what is so!

People are conditioned at an early age in the west as to the merits of having the right looks, the right jobs, belonging to the right clubs, having the right friends, driving the right car, having the partner who makes them look good, .etc.

It is searching for the Holy Grail. Sex fits into that picture: conquests....power...control.

Sex is an extension of the lower chakra system. It is the same Chara which creativity comes from, according to the Hindus

Those who make a bog deal of it and are infidels and seeking to satisfy an insatiable appetite for the "Right" stuff. They are not loved, nor can they love..

It comes from early childhood conditioning from many sources primarily home and TV. It is what prevents people from being decent contributors to society and evolving..

I have had friends like that, and now, for the most part, have Little to do with these people. Their thinking is all messed up. They are the first to jump out a window when the market crashes, the first to complain when a vacation had to be postponed when a promised bonus or deal doesn't come through.They are selfish, rarely contribute time or money to society, unless their account taint or publicist says so.

The amount of sexual infidelity fills us novels, is in the Gerry Springer and Maury TV shows and examples of a national ethics and morals problem.

It starts in Washington, DC.

It is just what is so.

Answer 3

There are many reasons for infidelity and it is not always sexual. Very often we find that it is an escape from reality. When there are everyday problems they can't cope with, directly or indirectly related to their marriage, infidelity is one avenue of escape from their problems.

At times of crisis or problems, infidelity has a high tendency of happening such as in times of financial problems, work problems, low esteem, relationship problems, even health problems etc. Rather than having to put up with spouses who remind them of all the problems they want to avoid, they get involved with a partner with whom they can forget reality and start anew.

Of course, there is plain sexual attraction but that is not the norm. Very often, people have affairs with sexual partners who are less attractive than their spouses.

Answer 4

Because we are like the kids that just grew up and are in college, going crazy with it for the first time. You see, for a millenia, political and religious leaders have looked down on the wonderful, gift-from-God act of sexual union. (Their priests, etc. aren't allowed to be married, no protection etc...) We have broken free from that recently. So half the world is going nuts while the other half still hold the old-fashioned way of thinking. Makes finding a balance VERY difficult.

Answer 5

a guy is going to ascertain his healthcare expert to shield his undesirable migraines: "checklist, i've got been getting those undesirable migraines. i don't understand what to do." The checklist replies, "nicely, every time i'm getting a migraine, I honestly have intercourse with my spouse. Why do not you attempt that?" the guy has an identical opinion and makes an appointment to ascertain the healthcare expert back in some weeks. on the save on with-up appointment, the guy is ecstatic. "checklist, you're a genius! I took your suggestion and that i've got not had a single migraine!" through fact the guy gets as much as bypass away, he says to the healthcare expert, "oh, by using the way, you have have been given attractive front room curtains."

Answer 6

The most HEALTHY perspective of sex is to save it for a marriage relationship, then stay faithful to that person and they to you, within the marriage.

Within marriage, sexual pleasure is grand, wonderful & even exceptional because you can completely trust your partner to have your best interest at heart....emotioanlly as well as physically.

The most healthy perspective has been given to us by God from the very beginning of mankind. There is absolutely no reason for this perspective to "evolve".

In fact, it you see it purely from a evolutionist standpoint, this perspective would win hands down because it protects the survival of the fittest.

Answer 7

Because we are taught from an early age that sex in nasty.