I hate it how girls kiss even if they dont mean anything by it.. it just messes with my head.. i think hold on.. is she bi?
Im a guy i dont kiss and cuddle guys.. I dont even like massages from them i freak out..
Whats with this?
2007-08-05 23:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by No use for a name! 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Im 18.. im not that young.
2007-08-06 01:35:51 · update #1
Congratulations, bro', for having a stereotypical male 'all physical contact is about sex' attitude. Seriously, though, it's not. Kissing and cuddling can also be about affection, gratitude, warmth, and friendship. Especially between two straight members of the same sex.
Think about it this way. Athletes smack each others' bottoms when they make a good play. That doesn't make them bisexual. It makes them teammates.
Hopefully, "what's with this" is that you're kinda young yet. However, that's a good thing. The fact that you're asking this question means that you're willing to question your peers' assumptions and learn from it. :)
2007-08-06 00:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by trai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm rastagrappler, you are straight so you will obvious find women sexier. Just being friends doesn't mean you aren't homophobic, that could just mean you are politically correct or trying to be. But anywhoo, prettiness does not make having sex any easier. You are confusing attractive to sexually attractive, good looking and good looking in the sexual way. They are two different things. You might be surprised with how beautiful gay men find women. Hell some gay men say other women are sexy or hot, yet they are just as repelled with having sex with a woman as a straight man is towards another man. Certainly gay men should naturally be attracted and it should be normal too right? Think of it this way. You have a cousin or family member (woman) that is very pretty, beautiful. You are probably think, well duh, that;s family. But while that is obvious, the reason I point this out is showing the difference between attractive and sexually attractive. You see by the family example, you can find one pretty, yet repulsive with the thought in the sexual attractive sense? The reason is because for other examples, you can find a person very beautifulm but be just as repulsed by the thought of sex with someone regardless, thereforem attractive in one sense, yet not attracitve in the other sense. It doesn't matter how pretty one is, you have to be born or have some sexual attraction. Beatufy doesn;'t make it easier to do something sexual. Because no matter how pretty, if not sexually attracted, a person will be repelled or not interested in sex with that person or sex. Whereas anotehr person might not be anything special, but the though of having sex not being repelled or there being interested, because of naturally have a sexual attraction to a person or sex. You have to be sexually attracted first, then the beauty difference is what can make the difference in provoking one's sexual interest to one person compared to another. Withouth out the born, or latent sexual attraction, it wouldn;t matter how beatiful a person is or wouldn;t make it any easier. Beauty only makes a difference with it being easier to have sex with the same sex if there is sexual attraction there to begin with.
2016-04-01 01:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont agree. look at sport. when a team scores a goal or makes a run, or hits a winner. They kiss and cuddle, and most of them are not bi
2007-08-05 23:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the answer to this one your a guy (i presume) its OK for girls to hug and kiss (only a peck on the cheek if its a peck on the lips the its a bit wrong) any way guys are more manly they look at another guy and think ewwww!! girls are more closer to each other(as in Friends)
2007-08-06 00:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ang 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-08-06 00:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Max A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh, you know girls, always trying to act pretty and whatnot. It doesn't bother me, actually, I kinda like when they do that!
2007-08-05 23:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no idea. u got problems!
2007-08-05 23:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by WOW! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a girl thing...
2007-08-05 23:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by wojjy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just sexy when women do it
2007-08-05 23:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you gay or jealous???
2007-08-05 23:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋