tell me what should i do when caught having sex by our nearest i dont want to name who saw us but we have been seen continouously for one hour when i was at peak was ther that kid enjoying who saw us continousuly for one hour . what he will be thinking . will that kid discuss this in school or public i m feeling lot of shame guide me plz when kid saw us i was in doggy and enjoying it .
2007-08-05 23:14:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
actually we knew the kid was watching us but as i told u were in our peak my husband told us let the kid saw us the will learn and know about sex
2007-08-05 23:25:39 · update #1
Absolutely I would be embarrassed and I certainly would have stopped what we were doing. No matter how much I was enjoying it. Once your child entered you were obligated to do what is in best interest of that child. Instead you were selfish. Of course he is going to talk to his peers at school because that's what kids do. Your best bet is to apologize to your child and discuss age appropriate material about sex to him because the questions are coming.
2007-08-06 01:04:55 · answer #1 · answered by Aphreakywuman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming(cause it's not totally clear) that it was your son/daughter or partner's son/daughter who saw you. That is a very embarrassing situation. Depending on the age of the child, you should try to talk to the child to see how much he or she actually remembers about what he or she saw. Children are some how curious about sex even when they are not old enough to understand it (thus he or she watching for an hour). I'd ask him what he thinks he saw, and then explain that this is something adults do when they love each other. But that only adults do it. I would also explain that it is not okay to discuss it with anyone else, because it's only for you and your partner to know and talk about. It's private. Also, I would really try to avoid something like that happenning again. Because sometimes a child will try to mimic what they see adults do. I had one of my nephews attempt to give me an open mouth kiss when he was about 4. When I confronted his parents about it. They told me he had seen his uncle having sex with a girl. I had to explain to him that it's not okay for him to kiss anyone like that...especially me.
2007-08-05 23:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ra-Ra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always make sure your kids are asleep at least an hour and a half, close there door and yours...... Stuff happens but it should not happen again and how do you know they watched for an hour? and was this the only time they saw you that you now about? if you know for a fact they watched for an hour and you did nothing to correct it you got a little freak in you and enjoyed being watched. becareful because kids will imitate with others...........
2007-08-05 23:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So the kid saw you having sex?
No problem.
You did not actually make him/her sit and watch you, so it was co-incidental.
Should not be a permanent problem.
At first she/he will be a little bombed out, but it is all a learning curve, and can only benefit from it, especially when the minor realizes later that everybody does it
2007-08-05 23:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Water under the bridge. Nothing you can do now. Yes it's embarrassing, just try to be more discrete next time.
2007-08-05 23:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Behave like elders.
2007-08-06 00:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by leaves 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok? well when you saw him you shoulda stopped. way to put a bad image in a kids head.
2007-08-05 23:17:08 · answer #7 · answered by WOW! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its your son or daughter is'nt it?
IT IS!
he's gonna be scarred for life.
i saw my parents doing it for like a split second, and i'm VERY messed up.
2007-08-05 23:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha. You were "in Doggy"??? isnt that illegal??
Well there is nothing you can do about it. Just move on and act like an adult and pretend nothing happened.
2007-08-05 23:17:45 · answer #9 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
obviously you could care a less or you would have thought about closing the curtains!
2007-08-05 23:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by cheri h 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋