I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm quite popular with both boys and girls at school and I'm pretty good looking. Recently, the boy who sits in front of me said that he liked me and he told everybody! He would be furious if other boys spoke to me(he even beat up another guy who likes me) and he wants to do everything for me. He follows me everywhere around school and insists in walking home with me everyday after school. But I don't like it. What should I do??
2007-08-05 20:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need adult intervention...talk to the school counselor, and also to your parents.
2007-08-05 20:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by hobbesjohnson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get a life! Tell him that you are not interested in him and if he continues with his unacceptable behaviour, you will raise a complaint of harrassment. You will inform the school's head and also the police, if necessary. Hopefully, the threat will be enough for him to back off. If he doesn't, then carry out the threat but call the police before speaking to the head. There is a reason, many heads of school would try to keep it quiet and possibly just give boy a ticking off at the very worst and he'll believe that he is getting away with his behaviour. That is not what you want. If the police arrive at the school, the head will be forced to take more serious action as he / she knows that the issue is public knowledge now. Therefore, there is more chance that the head will give the boy a short suspension and expel the boy if he continues. If the boy starts waiting outside of school for you, ask a teacher to take you home and call the police.
2007-08-05 20:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by kendavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy has some problems and maybe even mental illness! Or he could be just plain obsessed or has a violent nature. Tell him nicely you aren't interested. I would prefer you told him where you are in view of some people cause there's no knowing what he might do. Tell your parents or siblings about this. If he reacts violently or something after you tell him, report him to a teacher or school counsellor. Oh well, the prices one pays to be good-looking eh? xD
2007-08-05 21:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a forced love. Why should you be so isolated from the other friends at your age because of a very green love like this. This boy is only childish. Tell him you don't want it and if possible seek you Parents, Guardian, or your teachers intervention. You need a very close assistance.
2007-08-05 20:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by dviakal78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that sounds like obsession. The guy is too much into you ,to say it brutal he's obsessed and he can ruin your life if you don't stop him-I have personal experience-.So listen carefully; in such cases you don't have to be very kind. Explain him that you don't like him and that you wouldn't have a relationshp with him even if he was the only guy in the world. Try to be cold and snob.This might sounds cruel but such guys shouldn't be treaten differently because if you don't disapoint them they won't leave you alone. Ever. And when they will it might be too late. So stay calm and try to be a ***** with him. One time won't be probably enough but if you try you'll manage it. Good luck.
2007-08-05 21:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it and have them talk to this boys parents If you want to scare the boy silly have your Dad pick you up from school and talk to him Worked for my daughter when she did not want to be bothered by a boy she would just introduce him to her Dad who is a big guy
2007-08-05 20:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by chameleon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him politely in front of other people that you do not dig him AT ALL and that you dont want a stalker. Also point out that his breath is kinda foul (maybe its not but this will get him doubting coming close to you)
2007-08-05 20:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult immediately!! This child has initial signs of stalking and it could get dangerous. Don't mean to scare you, but better safe than sorry.
2007-08-05 20:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by ragann63 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... it depends if you like him to begin with.. i think you should just hang out with him and kinda "test drive" him, in a way. and just see if you like him.. but that whole over protective stuff is really kinda scary to deal with and it can become a big issue.
2007-08-05 20:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by wtfxupkeek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him firmly to leave you alone, and if that doesnt work go to the police and tell them he's been harrasing you.
2007-08-05 20:49:35 · answer #10 · answered by Cynical_Si 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋