yeah um.... my "boyfriend" found out that i am BI and he dont want to go out with me any more! well the question is if you had a g/f or a b/f and you found out that they were bi, would you still go out with them or would you want to break up?
2007-08-05 18:15:20 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes I would still date them, my bf of 4 yrs found out recently that I am bi and at first had some trouble with it but then realized it could mean a possible 3some for him. lol. Besides, if he doesnt support you, he isnt worth your time anyway. And is there a reason that boyfriend is in " "?
2007-08-05 19:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't break up with them but maybe you don't wanna count me 'cause I'm only ~95% straight, so I have every reason to understand.
But if they said that because they were wanting to date guys too, I think I'd say no this time. I tried to be okay with it once, but it didn't work out well.
2007-08-06 01:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ambivalence 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl is bi. Just tell him that your with him and that you love him and that's all that matter. Remind him that even though you can choose to be with someone from either sex, that you choose him and that your with him and only him.
If he just thinks about it he'll start to psych himself out, I do that with my girl sometimes.
2007-08-06 01:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by Forgotten Junk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,because i consider myself Bi (yet i prefer women) and i think its wrong to discriminate because of a label alone. if the person is commited to you then i see no reason to dump them.
2007-08-06 01:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by RainbowParrotFish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby is bi. he told me when we were dating. we had many talks about it. i am fine with it. that is who he is. i support him. we have a family so i ask that he be safe. for both us and any future partners. some people can not deal with it. i hope you find what you need.
2007-08-06 01:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still go out with them.
2007-08-06 01:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully,if I were a lesbian dateing what I thought was another lesbian I wouldnt dump her,but I would keep a sharp eye to what she says and does.It's a little unsettling.
2007-08-06 01:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Floyyy :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like one on one relationships, so my partner would have to be okay with that too. I probably wouldn't want someone who wanted to be with others, regardless of their gender...
2007-08-06 01:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by wishfulthinking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend....it my partner were bi...I'd at least like to talk about it a bit..........
2007-08-06 01:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a girl was bi, that means possible threesome...:) just assure him u wont leave him for a girl
2007-08-06 01:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by jenius1392 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋