hi my name is natalia lately i have been having these dreames about my husband cheating on me with other women , but when i ask him about it he gets really upset and we and gets into fights with me. i don't know what to do anymore ,,
2007-08-05 17:17:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its just a dream
2007-08-05 17:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Natalia, before you accuse your husband of cheating you have to have evidence. You cannot base his cheating solely on your dreams.
I have dreams that come true later on down the line. I write the dreams down and when it actually occurs, I can look through my dream diary and I have the actual day of when I had the dream.
Sometimes it may be a week, two weeks and even on one occasion it was a year down the road. But you must keep in mind that it is only a dream and the dream could change. For instance, I had a dream that my daughter's father moved. He didn't tell me the address but in my dream I could see the street name, (which started with a M) and number (which was only two digits). A week later, he told me that he had moved and the street name began with a M and the number was only two digits. Therefore your dream could mean that your husband may have thought about cheating with someone but he hasn't as of yet...but before you accuse him, you have to have the physical proof that he is cheating.
Stop fighting with him over this and use your dream as an insight to what can happen. How's the marriage? Is everything alright? has he changed in any way? have you changed? Is there stress in the marriage or you or him? Think about those things before you begin accusing him and then if your female intuition tells you that something isnt right, then begin to find out if he is cheating...
2007-08-06 00:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can have those kind of dreams and he can be having an affair! sorry, but i done that before and the dreams came true! heres what i think is going on, i think we dream it cause some were deep inside we know something already, we know that he could be having an affair, or we wonder if he could be? and when we question him to ourself then most likely he is doing something. after all you don't question a person for NO REASON !! there has to be a reason to have DOUBT !! and sometimes you can trust someone so much and never doubt them at all !! And they still can do you wrong!! and oh what a shocker it is!!! I've been there !!! too many times!!! it hurts like haddies!!! But don't question your man over your dream If you trust him?? ! just keep it to yourself and keep your eyes on him to make sure he isn't!! That is if you really think he could be cheating on you?? only you can tell!
2007-08-06 00:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just dreams...fiction, fantasy, your imagination, etc..
i dont blame him for being upset. I would be really REALLY upset if my husband had a "dream" that i was cheating and starting accusing me of it.
You owe him a sincere apology. Unless you have actual proof of him cheating on you, or a reason to believe it, dont start a fight about it
2007-08-06 03:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit accusing him of crap that you dream about. Your continuing to use these tactics will probably have him chasing other women or getting a divorce. Get facts before accusing anyone of anything.
2007-08-06 00:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why you are having these dreams. Is it because you actually suspect that he's cheating, or just because you're insecure?
2007-08-06 00:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cheesy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your dreams that you should trust. It's your internal female instincts. They've never failed me. I once caught my fiance' cheating on me and my instincts had told me long before that. The secret is to MIND what your instincts are telling you. I ignored my instincts obviously!
2007-08-06 00:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by squealy68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you suspect he is i am sure he is. and you probably know the answer to the question. now are you in position to act which is yes you should be. just because you have not caught him is nothing. hes fighting cause hes guilty and he feels ashamed. but heck hes started it and i think it would be justice to leave him throw him out and on his ear.
2007-08-09 23:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to dreammoods.com and look up cheating. It basically means you are afraid of being abandoned or that you feel a lack of attention in the marriage. There are other explanations as well, none of them are that he is actually cheating.
2007-08-06 00:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
besides the dream is there any other sign he is cheating?
2007-08-06 00:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kristin R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋