like whenever i hear my mom and her boyfriend fighting i wanna go to my room and just like hide. i was getting on the comp like 20 mins ago and i came out of my room to them fighting. i just wanted to like make them shut up. why do i want do this.
im 14.
2007-08-05 15:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Emawee, the way you handle this is to start crying and tell them they should stop.
Thank you and good day.
2007-08-06 15:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel bad when adults argue,especially if you care for them.It is too bad that adults don't think about who can hear them when they are arguing.Children should not have to be involved in adult issues.I'm sorry you have to listen to that.Maybe you could put on some headphones and listen to some music and at least block out the sound. Just try to stay in your room so you don't have to get in the middle of it.Try not to worry, maybe you have a grandparent or aunt who could talk to your mom about your concerns. Take care.
2007-08-05 15:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are probably feeling bad for your mom plus you dont want to hear it. just talk to your mom when you guys are alone and tell her that if they really must fight they should do it in their room or atleast somewhere where you cant hear them.
2007-08-05 15:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by liljess69692004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom that you don't like when she and her boyfriend fight and you wish she would stop!
That really sucks...i would call a family member to come pick me up and get out of that mess...
2007-08-05 16:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just because you're scared. I would wouldn't want to see my parents fight. I just wouldn't want to witness it.
As far as I know you really can't do anything about them fighting. It's just what parents do. But if they do it to often, there's a problem!
2007-08-05 15:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite normal to feel that way when things like that happen. Maybe you feel like they should care more about you and not fight...
2007-08-05 15:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stand to hear it and want to distance yourself from it. My mom and dad are the same way, don't feel alone.
2007-08-05 15:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by ... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they should shut up. What you're feeling is normal.
2007-08-05 15:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Svelte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they will aruge its natural for people in realitonships to feel bad. and u feel bad becuase of ur mom. it happens with eveyone. don't worry about it.
2007-08-05 15:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its normal to want to hide.
2007-08-06 09:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Heather R♥se 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋