I'm Aries, he's Scorpio.?

Question

It's been 11 years, but through alot of patience and love, SOMEHOW I can put up with him. :) are our personalities very much alike? Most things I read say we are a definate mis match

Answer 1

Every sign has a planet attached to it that is it's, "ruler". Scorpio's traditional ruler is Mars, and Aries' ruler is Mars. Mars is the planet of assertiveness, passion, forcefulness, ambition, sexuality and forward motion. Therefore, yes, you are alike in many ways because you both have this energetic planet as your rulers.

Aries and Scorpio can make a perfect couple. Any person can be happy with any other because it is not the planets and signs that make you who you are, it is how you choose to use the energies that the planets and signs represent that make you who you are. For example, you can use Mars energy to become angered easily and violent, or you can control that energy and learn to communicate your feelings in an assertive, direct manner without inflaming the confrontation. A person who takes responsibility for his actions will agree that this is true.

No doubt you and your husband can be very passionate about your chosen causes, and therefore, you might argue and have some very interesting debates on a regular basis. This is just because you both have this energy in common.
Aries is always on the go and Scorpio might not like the constant movement that takes Aries' attention away from him, but then again, Aries are very empathetic (even if they don't appear to be on the outside), so Aries understands what the Scorpio is feeling underneath and wants to return Scorpio's passion. Also, Aries and Scorpio tend to make for a great sexual connection (of course, the placements of ALL of the planets in yours and your husband's personal birth charts would have to be studied and compared to see if, or how, all of these basic astrological definitions apply to you and your husband. You can have an astrologer do a chart comparison for more specific information).

There are no right or wrong sign combinations, only irresponsible users of energy! Aries and Scorpio make an exciting couple, so enjoy your intensity and have fun with it!

Answer 2

Aries & Scorpio:
Possessive Scorpio will never go for the love them and leave them attitude of some Aries. Even though there are many Aries that would not do this, as they are quite honourable, the do give that impression. This is mostly due to the Aries high energy level and passion for life. The "depth" of Scorpio is foreign to Aries. If Scorpio can learn trust Aries, and Aries can deal with Scorpio's insecurities, this relationship can work. Since Aries won't take orders from Scorpions and Scorpio will never take a back seat. Love cannot be a bonfire between these two. Though they both are physical, energetic, and passionate in their physical nature and each has a forceful personality and wants to control the other there is no room for these two.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 3

Aries and Scorpio

This is a noisy, passionate, ardent combination of two Mars-ruled lovers, guaranteeing a relationship filled with action. Neither of you do anything half-heartedly and you both have strong, powerful convictions. This is not a classic astrological love-match mainly because winning is so important to each of you. Still, if you were to give this relationship a try, I'd bet it would be lots of fun. It could last -- but you are going to have to put in the effort.

In bed, you two have nearly insatiable appetites, which is good, for you will enjoy one another to the hilt. Both of you have tons of energy and passion, although your Scorpio's feelings may run deeper than your own. As an Aries, sometimes you don't delve down to their emotional depth. They have a need to be understood and you will have to try. But you will be able to act out all your fantasies with this amazing person who will "let you be you." Your lover is a master at technique and more sensual than you, so you could pick up some lovely insights from them, too.

Be aware that your Scorpio will demand complete loyalty and fidelity. You will get the same in return. This means, Aries, that your roving eye has to close shut if you want to keep your Scorpio. But too often, no flirting, no frolicking, and no frivolity on the side means no fun to you. You aren't sure you want to be anyone's one-and-only, an issue you will have to resolve early in this relationship. On that point alone you may find yourself at a make-it-or-break-it juncture.

Still, this is such a vivacious relationship, if you love a Scorpio and are willing to duke out the issues, what you stand to gain will make it all worthwhile.

Answer 4

As Gemaqualib correctly pointed out, Scorpio and Aries share a planetary ruler, Mars. Consequently, despite being a water and fire sign respectively, Scorpio and Aries share several traits which provide them with a special bond.

Mars is the planet of fire, passion and sexuality, so the relationship between Scorpio and Aries is typically passionate and emotionally charged.

Answer 5

Eek!
I'm guessing there's a lot of fireworks in your marriage---which isn't necessarily a bad thing. You must keep each other on your toes :)
You and your hubby share a sense of adventure and bravery (as well as tempers!) Aries is however more independent and impulsive than Scorpio. As you already know, Scorpios are possessive in the extreme, (and Aries tend to be flirtatious!) So try not to provoke him in that respect ;)
Also Hon, please give your Scorpio the solitude he sometimes needs. It's nothing personal against you; he just needs his alone time occasionally, which may be hard for the sociable Aries to understand.

Answer 6

If you're serious about "PUTTING UP WITH HIM" then i would say it's only a matter of time until this evaporates into thin air. Nobody should have to "put up with" anybody or anything. If that's how you define your relationship, it's time for you to move on, and in a hurry.

Answer 7

as far i can tell scorpio is probably the worst sign for an aries due to aries combative nature and scorpios kiniving (sp) ways. both are overly aggresive leaving no margin for error and this is one i would see becoming violent.

Answer 8

Good for sex, bad for serious relationship. Fire and water, remember?

Answer 9

horoscopes are bollocks, ignore them. if you seem similiar, you probably are. nothing you read can determine if you guys are similiar, thats just an absurd idea.