I feel so bad but we get a long well, him and his wife are having problems. We haven't done anything bad. But I really like him, what do I do.
2007-08-05 13:13:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not married and they have money problems which have nothing to do with me. I don't want to hurt my friend and I have not sleep with him either. I am not a homewrecker, I was really wanting to know how do I stop these feelings?
2007-08-05 13:46:28 · update #1
well...think about it...are you falling in love because you're lonely and you don't have anyone...you see this great guy but he belongs to someone else so you are a little jealous of the situation and you wish you had him...and you're using their problems as an excuse for why it's ok to like him...or is there another reason...this is on of those things were you have to look deep down inside of yourself and think about whether or not it's right for you to like or love your friend's husband...because I know damn sure you wouldn't want one of your friends to do that to do...
there are plenty of other great guys love...xoxo
2007-08-05 13:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Only 1 I LUv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say that you get along really well which to me means that you talk alot and spend time together. Maybe without your friend?? If you are having these feelings, he most likely can pick up on that. Did you ever stop to think that their problems are ,in around about way, coming from you and him? If you love your friend keep your distance from HER husband. Nothing good can come of this. If you choose to persue this you may end up losing both of them.
2007-08-05 13:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by ize4love07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hands OFF!!! You are no friend to the wife if you are checking out her husband and thinking about starting a relationship with HER HUSBAND (not yours). You are jealous of what she has and what you don't, you are a horrible friend. If you are a decent person you will leave them be, and go find some single friends. Or here is a brilliant idea GO FIND YOUR OWN MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Guess what there are MEN out there who are single, hard working, single, good looking, single, HAVE MONEY, single. Did I mention SINGLE? What are you nasty and ugly or something and think you can't get your own man? There is a whole big world out there, get out there and find your own life and quit trying to take other women's lives.
2007-08-05 14:26:48 · answer #3 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until such time nothing reconciled or repaired their marriage problem, you do not enter into a relationship with him unless everything is settled and clear both with your friend and her husband.
If I were your in your shoes I will try to help solved their differences, and give more advises to both of them. I knew if this guy is really wanting to leave his wife for you, something problem with you and your friend.
2007-08-05 21:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only normal to feel and say it's the wrong thing. Have you talked or have any indication that he feels the same? Happines is happiness you get it any way you can. It's just horrible to hurt someone in the process of it, if she finds out.
As far as forgetting him and the feelings you hold for him; forget it, they just dont disappear if they are true/real.
Good luck.
2007-08-05 15:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Grumpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just feeling sorry for the guy. How is your relationship with your husband? Does he deserve to be treated this way, being sneaky snake behind his back?
Dont entertain those thoughts. Dont let yourself be the reason of a broken family, not just his family but your family too.
Think happy thoughts with your husband, stay away from trouble.
Good luck!
2007-08-05 13:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by johnmonroe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a really tough situation. First you have to ask yourself some things, like, how much does your friendship mean with this woman? If you end up with her husband, will you be okay losing the frienship?Do they have children? If they do, then you will have to face this ex-friend and it will be a very hard mountain to climb. Until they are divorced, dont suggest anything. You dont want to be the cause of a divorce and be known as a homewrecker. If they divorce on their own,then he comes to you, just make sure you are willing to lose your friend.
2007-08-05 13:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
what kind of a friend are you if your feeling this way about her husband. if you were really her friend you would give them space to clear up their issues without getting into the middle. Are you sure your not the reason their having issues? Are you sure she hasnt noticed how "friendly" you have been with her husband?
2007-08-06 10:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by mc2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in those same shoes girl! how would you feel if it was your hubby and your friend? huh you need to grow up and get a life instead of trin to take someone else's, god it women like you that make other women look bad! i mean if your not happy talk to ur hubby! get counslin, im sure your friend would'nt like it if she knew! you need to stay away from him,and did he say he likes you ? prob not! this is one reason guys cant trust women anymore! what do you think ur hubby would say if he found out and you didnt tell him? just because you guys get along doesnt mean you should jump his bones,if thats how you feel then how many guys have you did behind your hubby's back! you need help!!!!!
2007-08-05 13:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off lady. You're starting down an ugly path here. If they split up, then you can try to start a relationship with this guy. But do you really want to be the "home wrecker" here?
2007-08-05 13:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋