I cheated on my husband with my ex , he is better at sex should i still see him for sex?

Question

I had sex with my ex two weeks ago. we have had sex three times since. he has a girlfriend also. I love my husband but my ex has always been the best sex i ever had.We done things i would never do with my husband, My husband and i are not living together right now but i see and talk to him everyday.
I am wild with my ex.

Answer 1

Well, since you and your husband aren't together anymore, what the hell. Might as well sleep with your ex since you don't take your marriage vows seriously. You should divorce your husband and stay single for the rest of your life.

Answer 2

Apparently you don't really understand what marriage is about and you are setting yourself up for your next divorce. Sorry that your ex according to you is better in the sex department but I think you don't understand what a real relationship is all about. The reason your ex is your ex is important but the reason you think sex is better is because you like playing the bad boy against the good boy. Try putting the same effort into your marriage. And if you think that sex is the true bond that keeps marriages together, you really must be living a dream. There are many important things that keep two people together and most important are respect, trust, and loyalty and openess. You have none of these with your husband so you can't possibly love him and he saw this and passed on you. Let him go so he can find someone with the right qualities for marriage. You and your ex probably deserve each other....for the ten minutes of life it takes for you to realize that sex doesn't conquer all.

Answer 3

It's not a very good idea to keep having sex with your ex. He must be an ex for a reason, right? If not, you two would still be together. Are you and your husband separated or going through a divorce? If he is not very good in bed, why don't the two of you sit down and tell each other what you like and dislike. Try talking about it. Talk about things you'd like to try and have a "safe" word so if there is something going on you don't like, you can discreetly tell him to stop. Your husband is not a mind reader. I'm sure he would appreciate you telling him.

Answer 4

I must say that you should stop what you are doing right away. Now, we all know the main reason we have sex is because it feels good. And, it's natural for you to want to have sex with your ex because his sex makes you feel better than the sex you have with your husband. BUT, you are married and therefore, this is against your vow to your husband. It will also cause a strain in your relationship with him because you are being intimate with someone else and you will be keeping secrets from him. As i see it, you have only 2 choices. Either tell your husband and let him make the decision to leave you or whatever. Or break off your relationship with your ex right away and never do that again. I wish you well my dear and hope you find it in your heart to do what is fair and right for yourself and your husband who you say you love.

Answer 5

You know i read almost all the answers on here before i decided to write my own, and all of them are mocking you and calling you names. Well I'm not going to mock you or call you any names, but I am going to ask you one tinnie tiny lil question and I want you to think about it. Why did you get married? When you were walking down the Ilse did you know that you were going to screw up your life? I mean I don't know if you and your husband are having problems I don't know what is going on. All I know is that your ex is a little better at sex than your husband. But you know the more you do it the better you get at it. And I would not screw up my entire life just for a little sex. Dang girl think about what you doing before you do it. He is totally being faith full and you just ripping your vows all to hell. Just throwing em' away. Well I guess all I can say is either you get your head on straight or you just going to be another sad lonely american. B'cause he's already been your ex once I don't think he would come back and last very long the 2nd time around.

Answer 6

Hmmm... this is a very difficult situation. You know what you are doing is wrong.. there's nothing wrong to have good sex but you see, dear...., you are legally married with a man that you have chosen.

Have you try to talk your hubby into improving your sexual relationship? Do you have a kid? If not, move on, get a divorce, be fair to your current hubby. And as for your ex, he has a girlfirend, i do not think your relationship will lust for too long.

You have to choose, if you want good sex, plenty of men around... but be fair to your husband. Leave him is sex is more important and have all you need, from your ex or others.

Answer 7

you are a bad girl! I think you know what you are doing is wrong! You should never cheat on your husband even if he aint no good at sex. You have to put your ex behind you, forget about him and focus on making your husband better at sex. You could teach him some things that you like.

Answer 8

You need to stick with one man. You married your husband for him. He has his good and bad sides, right? You need to accept both. Think of how he would feel if he found out. Is that worth a few pleasures in bed? Consider your ex. You broke up with him for a reason. Would you rather be with your ex, or your husband (consider your ex's bad side as well)? Cheating may seem as though you won't get caught. But what about your own conscience and guilt inside?

Answer 9

i was going to give a sarcastic answer. But I think you deserve a mature response. You say you love your husband, right? Well then you need to get rid of the ex because that's what he is. He is no more. If you want to have a good sexual relationship with your husband, then you need to talk to your husband about it. I'm sure he could satisfy you just as good if not better if you allow him to do it. I bet he would be willing to try new things. Have you asked him?
Good luck.

Answer 10

i hope you die a horrible slow death
some thing like Cancer
and that none will accompany you in your sickness
not your husband and not your ex
if this is all you whant from life good sex
then i have no respect for you
go and have sex with your ex as much as you want
and when you will reach old age and your beauty will be gone all that will stay is the shadow of the past
and you wll be alone and npt your ex and your husband
will give you comfort and joy.

have your Dear GOOD SEX
if that all you seek in life
be it lonely and miserable

Answer 11

this is such a stupid question, i can't believe you wake up every morning and look at yourself in the mirror and think this is okay! all i have to say is, get a divorce, free that poor man who doesnt know whats going on, you and your ex deserve each other becuase obviously both of you can give a rats *** about your husband/girlfriend!! you picked sex over him!!!

p.s you are a horrible person for hurting your husband like that