This man whose in love with me is changed man according to him in the past was a brat got into gang was kicked out of home have no idea about his past love life he went abroad got education is working as professional from past 8 years.I dont doubt or have trust issues its just apart from family friends for decades we are best friends and in love from years so dont want to loose friend and love both at once how do i make sure hes a changed man
2007-08-05 13:10:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If love is true if it has changed a person only time and God can know you can only trust and let time tell you and have faith in God and love your man trusting and think hes changed.Time and tide wait for no man.
2007-08-05 21:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone should have the respect of changing their life from a horrible existence to wanting the better life. If he has been clean and away from his past, you should be able to tell. If he has any contact with his previous life, you should know. You can check him out and should and be very careful. If you have known him for all those years, you should have no problem knowing who he is and who he wants to be. Just be sure he has no gang involvement no matter what he says. More important that he no longer lives in the same environment he was involved with a gang. His previous love life is not important, his gang involvement is.
2007-08-05 20:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the truth is, only time will tell. You cant really know what all is going on and if he is a changed man until you probably live with him. Youll know when he gets calls, when he leaves, how he acts when hes on the phone and around his friends, thats the only real way you can tell. Thats why so many people say "they changed after we married" because they didnt live with them to actually see what their daily lives were like. good luck honey, and for your sake, i hope he has changed, Im not saying move in with the guy, but always keep your eyes open,and be very observant. good luck
2007-08-05 20:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him until he gives you a reason not to. Good Luck.
2007-08-05 20:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask around, set up some tests, or trust him.
2007-08-05 21:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance
2007-08-05 20:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by ilessthanthreeyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and don't rush into anything
2007-08-05 20:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by a g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way you can be sure.
2007-08-05 20:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋