why do we as females have insecuritys. Most females claim not to be. Tell me can you honestly look in the mirror and see no problem with your body, facial image, or the clothes. I dont know about everyone else, but its time for me to stop. Tell me, are u insecure?
2007-08-05 13:06:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Not very much. When I look in the mirror, I KNOW bits of me could be better, but I don't stress about it. I'm not perfect, and I wouldn't want t be - no one else is, there'd be a lot of stress being the only perfect person in the world. I'm very happy with my both my body and my personality.
Women have insecurities mostly because of the media. Our physical appearance has been criticised and criticised for generations, and now we're left with this: Size Zero.
Have you noticed how the media is starting to get at men now, too? They've squeezed every last drop from the women, it's time to move onto fresh blood...
Good question! :D
2007-08-05 13:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Legate Tatiana 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry - everyone has insecurities - its natural. We are all our own worst critic. And men as you know, can criticise anything - so just imagine how harsh they can be on themselves sometimes. For me it is all of the same things - weight, looks, realtionships, money, careers, the whole nine yards and the lack of 14 inches!!
You are very postive to say - stop!! Because it is normal to feel these things, but NOT normal to obsess about them. At the end of the day we all have so much to be thankful for and when you realise those things it tends to outweigh those insecurities. I think if you are feeling sensitive to these things that it is good to know that everyone has these feelings - even if they don't outwardly show them!!
2007-08-05 13:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by carlos b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am. Even more so when I post a pic on here or other websites and most of the responses are "ew this and ew that". I hate my face...the only thing I really like about it is my eyes, everything else just disgusts me and makes me feel like an ugly duckling.
2007-08-05 13:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by H.L.A. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really.
Would I like to be taller? sure ...I'm 5'2"
Would I like to be thinner? sure ...I'm a size 12
Do I have wrinkles?....at 35 they are starting to show...so I apply a layer of spackle each morning under my foundation!
But in the grand scheme of things...I really like myself. I'm not insecure...but I do know my limitations...you won't catch me running around the beach in a string bikini.
2007-08-05 13:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Boots 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women feel that way because someone they were vulnerable to told them something that made them feel bad, or they just compare themselves to girls they feel are getting more attention than them.
2007-08-05 13:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by weird...just a little... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be.... once you realize there is only one you, you want to better yourself and take care of yourself more. I know I'm beautiful, if you tell yourself you are, then others will believe you.
2007-08-05 13:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea im insecure but oh well
2007-08-05 13:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by -Cay- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not only girls that are insecure, men are too
2007-08-05 13:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by JulyFire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am, I'm not skinny but not fat. I'm working on it though :)
2007-08-05 13:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am.
i know wat you mean.
when summer began, i stop being insecure but as the school starts soon, it just came back.
the way you should wear ur clothes, ur hair, makeup, everything!
i wanna stop but i just can't
i dunno y
:(
2007-08-05 13:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by gksjfakjfakjfakl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋