My boyfriend and I have known each other for about a year and a half, and have dated for eight months. I found out that he was bisexual before we started dating. Over time, I have accepted that fact that he was bisexual and he has became more and more open about talking about his "other" life with me (i.e. encouncters, how, where and when, ect). We have both meet each other families and we have discuss our furture together. I am bicurious but have never been with a female, but would like to one day. The problem is that I fear that one day he wll leave me for man after we have invested so much into our relationship. The other thing is that I feel that he is merely with me to show his family and friends that he is straight and to have them not question him about his sexuality. I have comforted him with these concerns, and he has just denied my accusations. He claims to only have sex with man and that he does not sleep with other women. Can I have a serious relationship with him?
2007-08-05 12:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by LADY_VEE 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Bisexual men want the "respectability" of a gf/wife, but inevitably he will cheat on you with a man. It's astounding how many married men are on gay dating sites. Get out now while you can.
2007-08-05 12:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
You are confusing cheating with being bisexual, which are two very different things.
A bisexual person could be with a woman or a man. They may date both sexes at the same time, but when it comes down to a relationship (past the dating stage) then it is only one person.
Sounds like he is just cheating on you.
2007-08-05 12:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People cheat if they are the cheating type, regardless of sexual orientation. People are faithful if they have the faithful personality, regardless of sexual orientation.
People tend to think that bisexuals stray more because they want to be with both sexes. That is purely myth. It's the same as liking both blonds and red-heads. Faithful people will stick with who they have and unfaithful people will go for both.
If your boyfriend is the faithful type, you have nothing to worry about. If he's the cheating kind, then you do, but his bisexuality has nothing to do with it.
2007-08-05 12:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's true love, it'll work out hun. if it's not than it's buh-bye 4 him! & don't forget - it's normal 2 have hots 4 some1 other than ur bf but it's highly unlikely dat there'll be sumthing out of it - especially if this woman is married 2 a man. sorry 2 break the bad news. 4 now, i think u should just concentrate on u & ur bf & ur relationship, &leave the other woman & her marriage alone. but if u happen 2 like a single girl way better than ur man, than i can say dat u should go 4 it. best of luck xoxo
2016-05-19 14:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding out he was "bi-sexual" before dating should have been a huge tip-off. He's not serious about you, only serious about having the image of a hetero relationship. Jump now.
2007-08-05 13:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You make a great point against yourselves. This whole gay/ bisexual business is a way for you people to avoid ever growing up. Continue to have your 'relationships' but make sure that you bring no children into your madness.
2007-08-05 13:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋