i had a crush on my best friend, i'll call him joey. well i liked joey for a while, then my friend paige started going out with joey. so i stopped liking him cuz i wouldnt hurt paige, now he is about to brake up with paige, and i found out he likes me. joey liked me for a while.and idk wat to do, i dont want to hurt paige, but i like joey now and i dont want to hurt me and joeys friendship by going out with him.
2007-08-05 12:07:26 · 10 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Boys come and go. Your friends will be there for you forever. If you do go out with this "Joey", then it may not work out like he and Paige. And going out with him can ruin your friendship with Paige. So you'll be left with neither. Just be Joey's friend....that way you can be cool with both of them. Other guys will come around and you will have crushes on them and when you do, you'll have your friend, Paige to talk to about all these guys =)
So yeah, be friends with Joey and be sure to tell him why you decided this. Hope everything works out!
2007-08-05 12:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Diana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with this so call Joey. Cause he's not good for you. Keep him as a friend and tell him that's all you could be with him. And you will see a lots of things come out of his closet sooner or later. I was you I hang out with Paige. What he did to her. He will do to you too. This is all up to you now.
2007-08-05 12:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to paige and tell her that you kinda like him but wait until shes fully over him until then just stay friends with joey
2007-08-05 12:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by latosha h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok , i think if they break up , u should wait for awhile just to don't make ur friend paige upset or hurt ,,, then go and talk to her privetly that u want to be the new Gf for Joey ... wish you best luck
2007-08-05 12:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by jo n jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to Paige about u wanting to go out with him so u wont hurt her. if u dont go out with him b/c u dont want to hurt ur friendship u may lose this chance to be with him. i say take the chance
2007-08-05 12:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by misfitcutie X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you mite wanna tell her how u feel. but u might wanna try n hol off for a while since they just broke up. maybe try to slowly drop hints that u like him. As 4 him, explain to him ur situation n why u can rush into it with him. if she's a good friend then she'll get over it after a while and wosh u the best, but it's gonna be real difficult
2007-08-05 12:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could talk to your friend paige about what she would think if you were to go out with him. if she dissaproves find out why. are they good reasons or emotional ones. personally, i think dating is...well it happens alot. do you want to stay with this guy for forever? and if not, what will happen if you guys break up? will you still be friends? talk? and would it make a great difference if you guys stayed friends or go out? think of yourself in the future if you were to go out with him and if you werent...good luck
2007-08-05 12:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by adenine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it first and tell her that you liked him before she did and explain this to her. Tell her you are very sorry that they didn't work out but you would like a chance with him because you give up your chance so she could have hers.
2007-08-05 12:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by Shonda Murphy-Polk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you and joey simply remain friends.
if you can "instantaneously like him" then i'm sure you can turn the LIKE switch on and off as far as other guys go, too.
good friends are precious, boyfriends come and go, believe me.
2007-08-05 12:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends should never ruin a friendship trust me
2007-08-05 12:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋