A girl told me the other day I shouldn't have a myspace because I'm ugly, and that she didn't want me around her friends because she was embarassed of me cuz of the way I look. Also alot of guys will flirt with a friend and pay no attention to me, and the guy of my dreams is more interested in some blonde hoe. Please be honest, but nice. Nothing too mean please! http://i184.photobucket.com/albums/x53/sugarlips167/myspacepics019.jpg
2007-08-05 11:46:42 · 34 answers · asked by ♥ Amy 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
No!!!!!!! your so pretty...those guys only pay attention in that blonde hoe cause she dresses like a hoe...so that's why guys get attracted to that..you are really beautiful and i doubt that guys won't notice you...their are lots of fish in the sea..you just have to have patience and the fish will reel in the hook...(it means he'll come to you)also that girl is REALLY jealous in you..you look great..just flip your hair down more...
Trust me,but don't try to something crazy or dress provoctive or anything like that..
Alana:)
2007-08-05 11:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by alana:) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your a really cute girl.
Sounds like the girl who told you not to have a myspace page has self esteem issues and it makes her feel better to put you down. Ultimately, that's her issue and not yours.
You're just young and as much as I hate to say it.. we females can be catty B's when we are young. For the most part, it really does get better once you become an adult.
Although, at 35 I still have one friend who still acts like she's in high school and pulls the same junk on me. I've known her since we were 14 and she's always been that way. Only now when she does it....I know what it is she's doing and why and just let it roll off my back (she has a poor self esteem and I don't. It's her self esteem and her issue and I'm not going to let it drag me down).
Take a little bit to take a close look at yourself and what you have to offer...besides just your looks.
Yes you are cute...but are you smart? get good grades? work a job that you do well at? do you have ambitions or plans? active in your church or community? are you person that your parents can be proud of? a good friend to your friends ....there for them when they need you? are you a positive asset to the community? are you on a sports team?
Take an honest assessment of yourself. Forget being modest. If your good and you have something going for you then say it. Most likely you will find, that you have a lot more going for you than you think. Once you realize that, your self esteem and confidence go up.
If the answers are no...then maybe you should see what you can do to make changes. For example, if your an animal lover...can you volunteer with a local animal charity or humane society? Then reassess yourself at a future date.
If the guy of your dreams is interested in the garden utensil...it's because he thinks he can get some nookie...not because of her personality. You really don't want a guy like that.
2007-08-05 12:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, srry, but I just had to add in that word 'hell' but girl, you are far from ugly. I'm a straight girl, but I know beauty when I see it. Whoever told you not to have Myspace is probably jealous that you'll overshadow her. Beauty is HIGHLY subjective so as long as you view yourself in a positive attitude, then it's all good. You are pretty by your own standards and who gives a damn about what everyone else is? Cheer up because you are pretty!
2007-08-05 11:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i think ur really pretty, don't listen 2 that grl on the myspace or w/e she's prob just jealous. And if u want ppl 2 notice u more u have 2 have confidence. be proud of who u r and then the guys will not help not staring at u!!!
2007-08-05 11:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you look exactly like my friend and she gets like 19 year old guys chasing after her. And dont worry, i thought the same way about myself cause i get stuff from facebook in my honesty box that i look like a man from girls, but then i get honesty box things from guys that say im beautiful. So the girls are just jealous, the guys will realize that they have nothing to talk about with the blonde hoe, and you'll get the guys.
2007-08-05 14:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by luckyhockeystar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious, you are pretty and no im not just sayin that. But how does ur freind dress...trust that makes ALL the difference, how she dresses, carry herself, and wears her hair and makeup. I know alot of girls taht are pretty that people say stuff like that too. Like my friend britt, she is very pretty and skinny ans she dresses very cute, but this one girl always is a ***** too her. I think she is jealous, but also is taking advantange of the fact that she is a queit, sweet girl. thats all. And that girl Is obviously insecure about her self so she has to make herself feel better by picking on you. I know taht sounds corny but its WAAYYY true.
2007-08-05 11:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Monica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well by the way your making yourself sound i thought u was going to be ugly but your pretty. U shouldn't let nobody words get to u because their probably jealous. I bet u look way better than them anyway it always be the ugly ones talking ****!!
2007-08-05 11:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mz.??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! is that you! are you kidding me! you are so pretty! the only reason those girls say that is because they are threatened by how pretty you are! you are barely even wearing any make up! you are just naturally beautiful and they can't accept that. they prolly have to wear 10 pounds of make up just to look decent. but you are beautiful naturally.
the only reason it may seem that guys don't pay attention to you is because they think you are too good for them. it's easier for them to get a sl*t. than a naturally beautiful girl .
2007-08-05 11:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by serendipity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about that stupid girl on myspace-she's just jealous-you are really pretty-you have really good skin and i like your hair! Lol. But about the boys, have you ever thought that maybe they think you are hot, but they think you don't like them-plus maybe the other girls are just easy...lol
Hope I helped!
2007-08-05 11:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, you're not ugly at all. you're cute and if that guys interested in some other girl, then its his loss. you should put yourself out there. i don't mean act like a slut and everything. but if you see a guy you like, drop subtle hints, flirt with him. you've gotta be confident about your looks and personality and that confidence alone will make you more attractive.
2007-08-05 11:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by Erika L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋