how do i get over him?
how could he do this to me?
i am so sad right now....i need a hug....xxxx
2007-08-05 10:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
we've all been through this...and things get better in the end, don't worry. always a better person out there, that's meant for you
2007-08-05 10:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by [insomniac] 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same here.... ive have been in love with this guy for almost a year now and he broke my heart. He never calls, sends emails, and it seems like he doesnt want to hear from me at all.
if you and this guy still have a good relationship, or anything left at all, then try to become friends. If you spend a lot of your life with someone and your realtionship was good, then why not try to be friends and get along. It may bring you closer to him again and you might get back together- if YOU feel its the right thing to do.
Hang in there and indulge in some chocolate and some of your fave movies. (im watching a marathon of Law and Order and eating hersheys :0) You will get through this. you arent alone when it comes to breakups and heartaches, we all have had a broken heart at some point in out lives. But the good thing is that it doesnt last forever.
I wish there was a way- but you cant get over some one in a day or two. You really cared for him and he let you down. this isnt your fault and he should be suffering for all the pain he has caused you. If there was a way to get over it, i wish i knew the cure.... :)
Remember that you are a smart, lovely girl and you deserve better. So spend time doing things you like to do- like hobby or hang out with your friends. And if it helpes any, i think there are some sites you can go on an give his emil address and a whole bunch of women will send him loads of hate mail.... LOL
Keep a smile on your pretty face, and get better soon! :0) Your soulmate is out there. you will meet him one day :)
⥠hugsâ¥
2007-08-05 20:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find true love takes a lot of pain..the pain of a broken heart but with the more pain the more closer you are to finding the right person. Hes out there somewhere waiting for you but to find him you have to not be scared to love because if you are to scared to feel the pain that comes with love and give up you want find him. When your in love your happy and its always worth all the pain in the end because you felt love for that time. I know how it is and how you feel its hard to get over but someone new will come and you will feel an even stronger love then before just dont give up..
many hugz from me and i hope you feel better! =D
2007-08-05 17:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Viper Ice...It hurts alot, doesn't it? The first thing ya gotta do is cry and let it hurt for a while but don't get stuck there. Lost love is worth crying over...but not forever. Allow yourself to grieve so that you don't bury your hurt and take it out on someone else later on. I started taking long walks, long drives and journaling helps. Write it down and get as much of the pain out of your system as possible, then as Dee said, the rest takes time, time and more time. Talk with some friends that you trust that will help steer you in a positive direction as you heal. You'll get through this, sweetie, trust me, you will.
2007-08-05 17:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by wittylaughingwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Best Way To Get Over Someone Is To Get Under Someone Else
2007-08-05 17:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by reginaphilangie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stand on your two feet and look at yourself in the mirror, take a good look these tears you cry this feeling over whelms you and makes you weak in the mind, in th heart, and your soul. Stand and be proud of he has just gave up for another who is weaker, you are strong and beautiful, remind him of what he had lost and look down on him because he looked down on you, but be weary of him he will try to control you and play games with your head and heart even more. ”DON’T LET HIM IN”.
2007-08-06 02:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by jrgimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a hug for you. A broken heart sucks to have. Been there a few times myself.
2007-08-05 17:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, there is a better guy out there for you that you are gonna love so much. an he is gonna take care of u an love you. watch 'Diary of a Mad Black Woman' best movie !!!! its so funny but true. you will see what im saying. you will feel better an have more hope. just rent it an watch it... 4 me. Don worry bout this guy. U will get over him. it takes time. be patient. ok? hang in there.. xoxoxoxoxox
2007-08-05 17:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by yingyanginthisthang 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a hug and some healing glue x best wishes hun
2007-08-05 17:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Magster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. but that just proves that he wasn't worth your time anyway.
I don't understand why people do the things that they do, but I do know that you'll move on with your life and find someone better.
but until then, here's a great big HUUUUUUUUUUUG from me to you.
hope you feel better soon.
2007-08-06 18:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry dear... Nothing worse than a broken heart...sending hugs to you as best i can
2007-08-05 17:40:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋