i have these "friends" that i've known (some for about 10 years) yet none of them call me anymore, i have to put all of the effort into hanging out with them. however, there was this girl i used to be friends with who out of the blue stopped talking to me yet they are all still friends with her (i really don't care) and actually CALL her to hang out. i've been told i should just drop them and move on, but i just don't understand what is really going on
2007-08-05 10:05:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People change and so do their interests, so its normal to loss friends in that regard. But don't worry about you'll make new ones in no time.
Best of luck :)
2007-08-05 10:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
foxxyk8789, Sweety all I can tell you is that as we get older we change ! I had an accident and all my friends are gone so I wonder too ? I am a shy shut in but you should reach out and meet new people ! Good luck, I will say a prayer for you !
2007-08-05 17:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that problem to, but i think mine was worst, i have some friends i also known like for 10 years and only one of them talks to me but then he started talking to other people and stoped talking to me, but he calls me when the other people he calls arent there, so he calls me as a second option and that get me mad, im mad at him right now and i dont talk to him, but you should leave them, make new friends, i know its hard to leave someone youve know for a long time but you cant keep thinking about them all the time, while you feel bad they're having fun, just try to make new friends, i dont think those are the only friends you have, try talking to someone else and make new friends.
2007-08-05 17:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by jose r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should move on...i know it wont be easy, but it has to be done.
believe me there r millions of other ppl who will be greater friends than those "friends" that know seem not to want to hang out with u anymore.
u should just chill them, n only talk to them if they talk to u 1st, or hang out with them only if they ask u to, if they dont then its their loss.
2007-08-05 17:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by JuLiA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im goin tough the same thing therre just bad friends you want friends who'' hang out with you and it looks like to me they droped you frist so join a club of a team so you can meat new friends with the sames likes you do
2007-08-05 17:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should. A similar thing happened to me and best friend wit these otha gurls. They don't care bout u so move on and dont let them think dat u care cause u shouldn't!! u deserve betta.
2007-08-05 17:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make some new friends! Good Luck!!!
2007-08-05 17:08:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur usual friends arent treating u right u should find sum new ones that will
2007-08-05 17:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by ~j~*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would use my energy in making new friends---A friend cares for you...I don´t see they do---
2007-08-05 17:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by jackielafemme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋